Today is the second day when my sixth grade child gets up early at five o'clock to study. Although I would rather sleep for a while, the child is determined to cherish the time and believe that waking up an hour early will definitely accumulate your own advantages over long-term accumulation.
The harder you work, the luckier you are
Many people ask, where do your children get the motivation to wake up early? And have internal driving force to learn and have the awareness to cherish time? To be honest, I also look forward to this day for five years. During this process, I have also been struggling with why the flowers have not bloomed yet. However, since I understand the psychological characteristics of the entire development of children, I have always had the belief that flowers bloom only sooner or later, and are not anxious.
The cultivation of a child is a world-class project, but as parents, before becoming a parent, you must reserve knowledge and ability to wait for the arrival of a child, rather than raising him with empiricism. The parenting experience of the older generation in the past was not bad, but children vary from person to person. If they were trained in a unified manner, it would naturally kill many of the children's advantages and nature. The requirements for people's comprehensive abilities in the new era are different. If we were still raising dogmatism , how could we cultivate children with our own advantages in the new era?
So how does a child cultivate his driving force? In fact, it’s very simple: respect, start with respecting the child. This kind of respect must start from the time the child is born, respect the child's nature, respect the child's personality, respect every need of the child's growth process. Do not evaluate it based on the criteria of adults' judgment, nor do they hinder the child's development in the way that adults think is correct. To do this, it actually requires comprehensive ability, careful observation, and empathy.
A child who has been respected for a long time will naturally slowly rise from the bottom of her heart, because she feels stable and down-to-earth love, feels her own value, and feels her inner strength. Gradually, she wants to realize herself, is willing to break through herself, and is more willing to try some challenging things. Because he knew deeply that she deserved everything and was unwilling to stop. Therefore, the power of being believed by parents is huge and the best way to cultivate children's driving force.
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