ruthless and careless parents, embarrassing and poor children, evil ignorant and fearless psychology .
Whether it is a father or a mother, devastating punishment must be absolutely eliminated. Because the devastating punishment is proportional to the evil of the child's mind. It will cause your child to fall into society in the future, be contempted again and again, and even eventually embark on the road of no return.
What is a devastating punishment? For example, the child just lies once, afraid that you will scold him or beat him, but you will try it on. You asked him to kneel on the ground, you asked him to write a guarantee letter, and say it together in front of his loved ones. Even in public, at the school gate, at the door of neighbors, or at the door of relatives and friends, they slapped their son directly in the face, kicked their son, and insulted them. These are devastating punishments.
Distrust children, inhumane punishments beyond the scope of children's tolerance, punishments that ignore children's self-esteem, and teaching children in front of others to make them unable to come to Taiwan, or even sarcastic sarcasm are all devastating punishments.
If we punish children for a small mistake, the children will think that it is very dangerous to admit their mistakes. If parents admit their mistakes, they may no longer love us. Then this experience will give children a sense of guilt and fear, and evil will arise unconsciously.
A child who has been punished devastatingly since childhood will become a person who cannot express emotions correctly when he grows up and will only solve problems in violent ways.
Some teenagers who kill classmates, parents, and endanger society all have a similar experience. That is to have been severely corporal punishment and humiliated by his parents. This leads to the child's heart full of fear and inferiority, and finally gives himself an evil thinking pattern.
In my impression, there was a classmate in junior high school who imitated the ancient and dandy at that time and always beat people at any time. And their parents lack discipline for them. When disciplined, I would just hang up the whip and beat it. As a result, he embarked on a criminal road, was disabled by a gang organization, and was imprisoned in the police station, living a life of jail, living alone and miserable.
If a filial son cannot appear under the stick, he will become a rebellious son or even a tragedy. Parents must remember to protect their children’s personality, punish them easily, humiliate them, abuse them, and not let them suffer shame and humiliation.
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