I believe many parents have had this experience. When taking their children out, they should not see toys. Once they see them, their children will definitely yell to buy them. If the parents disagree, they will start crying; but if they buy them for their children, there are actually many toys at home.
Faced with this situation, some parents will directly refuse, but doing so will make the child sad on the one hand, and on the other hand, it may also cause the child to cry and cannot end.
How can parents do better? Note that smart parents will do this:
. Make rules for buying toys
Parents can buy toys for their children, but they must grasp a certain degree of "degree". Otherwise, the children will never be satisfied and will always ask parents to buy toys for them.
How to grasp this "degree"? Specifically, parents can formulate rules for buying toys with their children, such as , for example, they can only buy 2 kinds of toys per month, or toys that cost less than how much they can buy each month. After this amount exceeds this amount, they cannot be bought. And once it is formulated, both children and parents must strictly abide by it.
In this way, when children buy toys in the future, they will think more and think more, and they will be more cautious, rather than having to own any toys regardless of them.
2. Appropriately satisfying children
It is normal for children to like toys. Think back to when we were young, we actually wanted all kinds of toys, , so parents should understand their children's mood and can appropriately satisfy their wishes.
For example, it is a toy that children particularly like, then parents can consider buying it for their children; but if it is not the ones children particularly like, parents can moderately refuse.
This can not only satisfy the child to a certain extent, but also avoid the situation of "blindly rejecting and making the child sad".
3. Make a wish list
Some children actually have a lot of toys, but children still want to buy toys. When this happens, parents may wish to guide their children to make a wish list.
Then wait until the child’s birthday or some special holiday, and the parents choose to give it to them.
In addition, parents also need to guide their children to choose the toy they want most on their wish list, rather than uncontrollable, all toys want.
If you do this, you can avoid children from buying many unnecessary toys and save parents money, which can be said to kill two birds with one stone.
4. Cultivating children's correct consumption concept
The cultivation of consumption concept is very important, and it should be cultivated from an early age.
When children want toys, it is actually a good time for parents to help their children develop a correct consumption concept, so parents should seize this opportunity.
For example, when facing toys that are over budget, parents should tell their children truthfully: "Baby, this toy is really too expensive, and mom really can't afford it."
You must let children understand the value of toys, so that they can help children establish a correct consumption concept.
5. Help children develop good consumption habits
In fact, sometimes parents do not prevent their children from buying toys, but just worry that their children will develop the bad habit of "wanting whatever they see".
So, in order to avoid children developing this bad habit, parents can make an appointment with their children before going out, such as: "Baby, we will go out to play today, and don't buy toys~" or "Baby, we can only buy one toy when we go out today, and we can't buy too much!"
Doing this can help children gradually develop good consumption habits.
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