When I went to kindergarten to pick up my baby the day before yesterday, the child saw me and said calmly, "I am in kindergarten today, and I don't cry or make a fuss."
I stretched out my thumb to praise him. It's so awesome, it's getting more and more amazing!
Then he said something, which shocked me: I'm on the 22nd day in kindergarten today.
I was shocked. It was indeed 4 weeks and 2 days, and it was the 22nd day. Are he still counting the days of every day?
I can’t fully understand the inner world of a 3-year-old child, but does this sentence make people feel like they are living like years and counting the days and living their lives?
I took him outdoors and at home to play many games, and he was very excited. It's almost 10 o'clock and I still refuse to go to bed. When we talk about going to bed, we will go to kindergarten tomorrow!
He was very excited, I've already started. I've been to kindergarten for 22 days, and I'm not there anymore.
I coaxed me. Going to kindergarten is a reward for good children. Look at every good child, he goes to kindergarten!
He was so angry that he threw down his toy and cried, "I don't want to go to kindergarten anymore, I've already gone to kindergarten."
The child's father was relatively simple and rough, and he stopped sternly and said, it's 10 o'clock now, he goes to bed and goes to kindergarten tomorrow morning.
Another burst of crying.
The next morning, I was still a little reluctant, but I had to face it. In short, it was in sharp contrast to the way I played games the night before.
went downstairs, and he rode his little bicycle, but he was always in a bad mood. After arriving in kindergarten in the past few days, I didn’t wave goodbye to me. The teacher asked him, and he also stared blankly into the distance without responding too much.
Of course, compared to the previous two weeks when I got up and said I was crying when I went to kindergarten, it seemed much better.
But all signs at present indicate that he is still in the adaptation period. Although he does not show too much crying, he is still a little disappointed and sad inside.
On the one hand, this is related to his natural personality. Children are not naturally extroverts; on the other hand, our whole family is not the kind of person who is familiar with them. They have ideas in their hearts, but they often don’t know how to express it. Even if they often play in the community and meet neighbors, they often just smile when they meet and don’t have much communication or communication, which is also where our personality lies. So, by example, the child has not learned too many interpersonal skills from us, etc. It is estimated that he may feel lonely or uncomfortable in kindergarten, which may be the reason why he is not willing to go to kindergarten.
No matter what, he still made a lot of progress. My inner thoughts are more like my wishful thinking analysis. Maybe the children don’t look that complicated, they just count the days they went to kindergarten.
I hope he can adapt to collective life as soon as possible and no longer counting the days and spending his daily life.
There are many things you need to learn to face slowly.
really wants to say, come on, boy!
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