Last year, on Xiaopang’s birthday, I wrote an article
First, I wish Xiaopang a happy birthday and healthy growth, and I wish all the children in the world to grow up healthily! !
Tonight, I will finish this article after a year.
finally wrote in the previous article that after experiencing a series of entanglements and ups and downs, I met Dr. Yang Xi from the Department of Prenatal Diagnosis of Guangzhou Women and Children's Center. After umbilical cord puncture eliminated genetic problems, I strengthened my determination to give birth to this fat girl.
As the doctor said, after birth, the water cyst tumor on the face will be treated.
Since you have decided to give birth, just wait for the baby to be born. In fact, the process is very difficult, and there is no way to achieve the mentality of waiting for the flowers to bloom.
During the period of time when I was waiting for delivery, First Affiliated Hospital of Sun Yat-sen University The most authoritative ultrasound examination expert in the province gave me the series of suggestions and reasons for giving up the baby. These reasons are still entangled in my heart from time to time
Fortunately, I met Mei Shanshan, a prenatal examination doctor in the obstetrics department of Guangzhou Women and Children Center. Dr. Mei gave me great encouragement and confidence every time I checked.
Doctor Mei knew that what I was most worried about was that the water capsule on the baby's face would affect the face. Dr. Mei joked to me: Now that medical beauty is so developed, even if it really has any impact, it will definitely not be a big problem to do medical beauty. Don't worry.
Fortunately, during the whole process, I met many good people, so I have always believed that 99% of the world are good people.
When the baby is 37 weeks old, the subsequent chemotherapy must be continued, and the subsequent chemotherapy drug cannot be used on pregnant women, so the baby can only be born in advance.
I had just had breast surgery for 4 months. I was worried that normal delivery would affect the newly healed surgical wound and wanted to have a caesarean section. Dr. Mei said that one week after the baby was born, you will have to go from , Dongguan, to Guangzhou for chemotherapy. If the caesarean section is very inconvenient and painful, you should try to promote natural delivery by inducing labor.
Finally, I followed Dr. Mei’s advice and tried to give birth naturally.
On September 19, 2019, a nurse came over to me in the morning and said a lot of things to me, all of which said that because your situation is special, the baby has great uncertainty and something may happen. Everything will not be known until the baby actually comes out. I didn't answer anything and kept nodding. Finally, the nurse took out a piece of paper and asked me to sign it before leaving.
This is a normal procedure for the hospital. Just like before the operation, the doctor will tell you the worst possible situation. Although the probability of these problems occur is very, very low, it still sounds uncomfortable. After signing
, I entered the high-risk delivery room and successfully gave birth to a baby after 9 hours. As soon as the baby was born, I asked the midwife if the baby's face was colored. The midwife told me that the baby's face was white and tender, don't worry.
I looked at the baby. The baby's face was white and had no color, but it was obvious that the baby's right face was larger than the left face because of the water sac tumor. Then the baby was taken away by a neonatal doctor who had been waiting for him.
I have to mention here that my midwife Dr. Dai Danfeng is also a very good doctor, and has given me great help and encouragement during the entire delivery process.
At this point, my heart that had been struggling for half a year was finally relieved. Next, I waited for the doctor to determine the treatment plan for the water cyst tumor on my face.
After the baby was born, I have been hospitalized in the neonatal department for various examinations. I have never seen her again in the next week. On the third day of the baby's birth, the doctor informed me that I could be discharged from the hospital and go home, but the baby still had to continue to be hospitalized for examination to determine the treatment plan.
This was originally known in advance. Although I was sad, I still feel at ease to hand over the baby to the hospital and I went home.
After returning home, he was waiting for the hospital to notify the treatment plan. As a result, the third day after returning home, the hospital called to inform us that the baby could be discharged from the hospital. We should check and observe regularly first, and no treatment will be performed for the time being.
Because I always felt that the hospital should come up with a treatment plan and take the baby home after he was cured. In addition, I had previously checked information online and said that the earlier the condition, the better the treatment. I heard the hospital notify me to pick up the baby and not receive any treatment for the time being. I actually burst into tears and argued with the doctor.
The doctor has been explaining to me that it is not that there is no treatment, but that the baby is too young now. I first observe and see what is happening later, and then decide whether there is a need for surgery. But at that time I couldn't listen to the doctor's explanation at all, and I subjectively thought they were irresponsible.
After talking to the doctor, I immediately checked the information online which hospital is the best hospital to treat this situation. Finally, I found out that there is a doctor in Chongqing who does not remember any hospital that treats this situation. I was trying to book a plane ticket now and take my baby to Chongqing.
The baby father was emotionally broken when he saw me and comforted me in various ways.
The day after receiving the notice, I insisted on going to the hospital with my baby's father to pick up the baby and then discharged it home. When I went to the hospital to see the doctor, the doctor explained variously, and finally gave up the idea of going to Chongqing immediately.
After the baby comes back, he will go for a checkup once every half month at first, then once every month, then once every three months, and then once every half year. Fortunately, although the water cyst tumor on the face has not become smaller significantly every time I checked, it does not grow up. Moreover, as the baby grows bigger, the size of the right face becomes less and less obvious.
Later, the doctor said that if there is no special situation, there is no need to come again. The last time I asked, I confirmed, can I really ignore it and not need surgery? The doctor said: If it were my own child, I would never have undergone surgery.
After listening to the doctor's words, he never went to the hospital for examination after returning home.
Now the baby is three years old and is growing up healthily! !
Thank you for all the doctors you encountered during this process, you are the most beautiful angels! !
Recalling these things now is just an experience. I hope to write them down to give parents who are unfortunately encountering the same situation later.
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