There was once a test about fathers' attitude towards their children. They put the recorder on the fathers and found that they spoke 5 times more to their daughters than their sons.
I don’t know since when, young couples and elders at home began to like girls more, and they did not hide their love in front of outsiders.
Generally, husbands who accompany the child in the hospital focus on their wives, but some expectant fathers may have other people's children on their minds.
The expectant father was accompanying the child in the hospital, but he kept staring at other people's children.
An expectant mother in Yancheng, Jiangsu Province, shared her experience of waiting for delivery in the hospital. Her husband's behavior made her laugh and cry.
Since he hadn't started yet, and the woman in the next bed had just given birth to a baby girl, her husband didn't have many things to do, so he couldn't help but curiously stand in front of her child's crib and watch.
The expectant mother asked her husband to go out to buy food. The baby passing by the next bed could not move and looked at the baby girl from a distance with a smile.
The expectant mother complained that she was hungry and told him that she was someone else’s daughter. Don’t look at it! The husband reluctantly walked out slowly.
Whenever he has free time, his husband will go to the next bed to check on the children, and occasionally he will come forward to help with some trivial matters. If you don’t know the relationship between them, looking at the camera, you would think that the woman is taking pictures of someone else’s husband. .
Seeing her husband's cautious and nervous look, the woman felt that if she didn't give birth to a daughter, it might not be the end of the world.
Many people have predicted that he will be a daughter slave when they see this father-to-be. They can imagine how happy he looks when holding his daughter.
Many expectant fathers react like this when their wives are expecting to give birth but they are staring at other people’s babies.
Outsiders may think that he is a bit exaggerated when looking at his father, but those who have experienced childbirth and expectancy in the hospital will know how real this is. .
In this regard, the expectant father is really curious. His baby is still in his wife’s belly. He can’t wait to know what the newborn is like. The baby happens to be born in the next bed, so he can take a look in advance.
On the other hand, some expectant fathers really like girls very much. Their eyes are different when they look at their daughters and sons, and their hearts are almost cute.
The expectant mother saw her husband busy in the bed next door. Although she was complaining about him, she was not angry.
loves other people's babies so much. It will be better and more responsible to take care of the children by himself. He is a enthusiastic and loving father-to-be.
When Sugar Mommy gave birth to little Candy, the dad next door also liked her very much. He heard little Candy cry and came to take a look.
Because his second child is a son, he and his wife prepared a lot of girl's items, and even gave us two pink handkerchiefs when we were in the hospital, which shows how much he likes his daughter.
Why do more and more expectant fathers like their daughters? The reason is heartwarming.
Once upon a time, girls were called losers and were not welcomed from birth. Nowadays, girls are becoming more and more popular, which is related to the following heart-warming reasons.
Men like to be admired by their daughters.
Girls are better at expressing feelings than boys, and fathers are often a superhuman existence in their daughters' hearts.
Men tend to prefer soft things over hard things. cannot resist a cute daughter. Who can not love a girl who is cute and can make people happy?
The result determined by genes
Men prefer daughters. In fact, is determined by genes. When the intervention item of favoring sons over daughters is eliminated, the preference for daughters becomes more obvious.
Sons carry 4% less genetic material from their fathers than daughters, so daughters tend to be more like their fathers than sons, increasing their closeness to each other.
There is no longer an obsession with "carrying on the family lineage"
As the world's thoughts continue to change, the obsession with looking forward to passing on the family lineage in the past is no longer so deep. Both his son and daughter are his darlings, and he obviously loves girls more than before.
In addition, the pressure to raise children is very high these days. At least for the time being, raising a daughter does not need to consider the issue of car rental gifts. , I feel more relaxed.
Only a few families that still favor boys over girls will treat boys or girls differently, and even look down on wives who have given birth to girls.
It won’t end without giving birth to a daughter, but I hope that the baby boy will also be loved.
Everyone hopes that the mother-to-be will give birth to a daughter, so that her husband will not waste his love for girls, but the very real problem is that we hope that he will give birth to a daughter. I also love boys the same way.
We are very happy. Over the years, the idea of favoring sons over daughters has slowly changed, but the injustice and tragedy of the past, also do not want to happen to boys.
does not support favoring boys over girls, and similarly cannot favor girls over boys, especially when there is a son and a daughter at home, no matter what kind of differential treatment, it is detrimental to the physical and mental development of the two children.
What kind of love will adults give their children in return? Adults should love their children as unconditionally. The gender of a child does not determine their level of excellence. The most important thing is the guidance and education of their parents.
Candy Mom’s inner thoughts:
I hope that the father-to-be will have the mentality of men and women are the same towards the baby he has not yet met, so that his own prejudice will not affect his attitude towards the child, or even affect the relationship between the couple.
[Today’s Topic] When you are about to give birth, how does the expectant father behave?
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