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Children are the treasures in the palms of their parents, no parent will be willing to suffer for their children.
But love and doting are different. If you want your child to adapt to society, education in this is very important, even if it can be cruel at times. But in order to "carve" children, sometimes cruelty is also a compulsory course for parents.
When the child sees the cell phone and forgets himself, the mother takes away the plate.
Everyone is the first time parents. When it comes to educating children, they are always careful. They read the books in order to teach them well, but the result is very little effect.
Many parents are often restrained by their children, and are easily affected by their children’s emotions and performance, and then change their own educational methods. They don’t know that a momentary softheartedness may pit their children. sometimes requires a lot of snacks to change bad habits. strong2strong.
For example, this mother has taken the "ruthlessness" of educating children to the extreme. When eating breakfast, the children are engrossed in their cellphones, and forget about being late for school.
Mother didn't remind or talk about it. After eating breakfast, she grabbed the chopsticks in her daughter's hand. The daughter was obviously surprised by her mother's operation.
But despite this, the child did not put down the mobile phone. After removing the dinner plate, the mother took the schoolbag and put it on her daughter's back. The daughter suddenly realized that she was going to be late, but she still did not put down the mobile phone in her hand.
Maybe you won’t understand until your child is hungry in class. is destined to be hungry when he chooses his mobile phone. mother is not used to the child’s problems, and has been praised by many netizens. .
So does this method have any effect? It is actually effective,Another mother used the same method to correct her daughter's problem of not eating well.
The little guy is always absent-minded when eating. For a while, he squeezes the food as mud, and then "washes his hands" in the soup. After the mother removes the food, the little baby doesn't care at all.
It turned out that in the afternoon, the little guy was hungry and ran to the supermarket to get the ham. He thought he could fill his stomach, but was robbed by his grandmother mercilessly. He wanted to go to the neighbor's house to "eat and drink", but he was hugged back by his father.
I didn’t have a good meal at noon, and the afternoon snacks became a bubble. The little guy was hungry for a day, and finally realized the joy of "dry meal" at dinner. and the noon "rice residue" baby are exactly like two personal.
This kind of seemingly cruel method, but actually effective once or twice, is similar to "consequence education" . Since children don’t like to eat, they don’t give them food. lets the children themselves To bear the consequences of not eating well, after knowing the taste of starvation, the baby will naturally cherish every opportunity to eat.
It is almost every parent's headache that children do not eat well, sometimes it is a child's problem, but parents should also reflect on whether they are pampering their children invisibly. The following 4 experiences are shared with parents in need.
A good way for children to eat well
Eat on time and don’t give children too many choices
Parents sometimes eat irregularly, which will naturally affect their children. Eating is not good, and there are snacks to fill up their hunger. . Parents should completely correct this point. should not allow children to have a choice between meals and snacks.
In addition,Parents should also pay attention to correcting their children's bad habits of picky eaters. If they don't like rice, make pasta, so their children will only become more and more picky.
When eating, don’t have too many additional conditions
Many children are surrounded by favorite toys when eating, there are cartoons on the TV, and some even have to watch their mobile phones to eat well... …
These "additional conditions" make children think that eating is "for parents to eat", and will not take the initiative to eat well. Remove all additional conditions so that children understand "eat for themselves" .
Learn to "coax" children and increase their desire to eat
Parents who want their children to eat more and eat well, can use their favorite cartoon characters or fairy tale characters to substitute for their children, such as the little white rabbit about to eat carrots again , The big tiger loves to eat meat, which improves the child's desire to eat.
Increase the child's exercise volume and increase the demand for "meal"
When children are physically strong, they need to replenish their physical energy and eat naturally. Parents also need to take their children to "move up" from time to time, which can effectively increase their children's needs for meals.
[Today's interaction]
What are your little ways to increase the child's desire to eat? Welcome to share~
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