2-year-old children are terrible, I am afraid only their parents can understand. A friend of mine who has given birth to a baby said that it is a hurdle for a child to be 2 years old. Parents must have the spirit of twelve minutes and the patience of twelve minutes before they can survive. This is definitely not an exaggeration.
2-year-old children's specific performance
Most of the babies before 2 years old are well-behaved and obedient, but they gradually become self-conscious after they enter their 2 years old. In the first little rebellious period, they will try to challenge the authority of their parents with words or actions.
Simply put, you let him eat, but he does not eat; you let him sit, but he has to run around. New parents may find it very annoying, but experts will tell you that this is a manifestation of the growth of a child.
My friend once told such a story. Once, he invited several of his daughter's close friends to be a guest at home and took out a box of chocolates to entertain them.
While eating chocolate, her daughter's mouth dripped on the ground. After a child noticed this, he immediately started laughing at her.
The next reaction of her daughter shocked everyone. She even vomited a few more saliva. The daughter's behavior immediately aroused the resentment of the children around her, and tried her best to stop her. However, her daughter not only did not silence her mouth, she also began to perform fancy spitting.I laughed very happily throughout.
The friend's wife finally couldn't help it. She beat her daughter and ended the "spit show". Although this kind of performance may seem unreasonable, it is actually quite normal. This 2-year-old girl is highlighting her personality and realizing self-awareness in this way.
How to guide a 2-year-old baby correctly
Although 2-year-old babies are suspected, this time is also a very critical period for shaping a child’s character. If parents can use the right method, not only can they avoid the "terrible two-year-old", but they can also make their children better.
What should parents do? First of all, don't resist the baby crying.
There should be many parents who are very tired of the crying of their children. If they listen to it too much, they will feel collapsed, so their attitude towards their children will be unconsciously bad.
But this sentiment is definitely wrong. If parents have this kind of sentiment, the parent-child relationship will definitely get worse, the baby will not get the correct guidance, and the mood will become more and more strange.
So when a 2-year-old child makes trouble and bursts into tears, all parents have to do is to wait quietly.Give him some physical comfort when appropriate.
After the child stops crying, the parents need to tell him that this emotion is not happy. Next time you encounter this situation, you can tell your parents: you are very unhappy and speak your own thoughts.
In this way, it not only allows children to vent their emotions, but also allows them to feel the care of their parents, and teaches them to express emotions in words. It can be said to kill three birds with one stone.
Secondly, tolerance is limited . With the awakening of self-awareness, the 2-year-old child begins to challenge the authority of his parents with crying. If his parents fail to resist or compromise one time, then this little clever ghost will remember the standard of "cry", next time Will use it again if there is a chance.
Therefore, when parents are around 2 years old, they must set rules to prevent children from developing a "crying" mindset.
Harvard Professor Burton White once said, “For a 2-year-old child, it is necessary for parents to set some codes of conduct and let the kids know the existence of these codes, and at the same time have firm implementation. Attitude, you can’t let the criterion become a “span on paper”.”
Of course, there is no need to set rules for everything.Parents can guide their children to do things that do not involve the health and safety of their children and do not affect others, such as what clothes to wear tomorrow.
Parenting must pay attention to the method, the method is right, the baby will grow up happily in the right direction, the wrong method, the child can only become an annoying "bear child".
Have you mastered these little methods? Welcome to share parenting coups and the moment when the "little devil" at home made you fall apart. Let us grow together.
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