Two days ago, I saw a video on the Internet, an ordinary family, a man ran freight, married for ten years, the woman gave birth to eight girls in succession, in order to give birth to a boy, and ended up destroying her own body. , The mother-in-law wants to drive her out...
There are also some children who are brought into the world in a hurry just because their parents have not prepared contraceptive measures. Their arrival has no plans or preparations, which is completely redundant for the family. And burden...
There are even some children who were abandoned by their parents when they were born. Some of them grew up in orphanages, and some were adopted by strangers. They never knew their life experience, never met their parents, and more. I have never enjoyed the warmth and love of the family...
I do not pity these parents, but I feel very sad for these innocent little lives!
From the moment they were born, they were unfortunately involved in a catastrophe of life and became victims of others' lives!
These lives should not have come into this world, but because of some foolish and irresponsible parents, they accidentally brought them into the world. Their lives were destined to be a tragedy from the beginning.
Since childhood, they have been ignored, ignored and discriminated against. Over time, they have developed an inferiority complex and cowardly character. They are accustomed to being bullied and indifferent, like a poor creature who only lives in a corner!
I want to ask these parents, you brought them into this world, but you never thought about treating this life kindly, and even the most basic material conditions cannot be guaranteed. What do you let them do in this world is to accompany you Suffer?
You can't even plan and take care of your own life. How can you take on the responsibility of raising a new life?
Who gave you the confidence and courage, and who gave you the right to give birth to them?
How sacred and great it is to nurture a life, how can it be so freely? It's sad and annoying!
does not mean that you have the physical ability to bring a life into this world. You must know that once someone is born, it will be a lively life that requires a lot of time, money and energy to raise. , Companionship, and education, it’s not about playing as you want, and you don’t want to play with toys that you can throw away at any time!
Look at the parents of some other families,Before the child is born, a separate room is prepared for the child, such as a crib, stroller, children’s furniture, various supplies, etc. The most important thing is the love and expectation of the whole family...
Dare to ask some parents, What do you prepare for the child that is about to be born? Is it just a pair of chopsticks?
If it's just for ridiculous reasons such as family reception, raising children and preventing old age, or just to prove that you have fertility, then I beg you, don't give birth to them!
Childbirth is not a simple and casual thing. It requires material conditions, love, and responsibility. Only children who are nurtured by love can become confident and happy.
Everyone can become a parent, but not everyone is qualified for this position.
Children do not have the right to choose their parents, but parents must have the ability to think seriously. It is the sin of parents to give birth to but to nurture; to nurture and not to teach is to blame for the parents; to teach improperly is to be the fault of the parents.
Japanese writer Kotaro Isaka said: When I think of being a parent, I don’t have to take an exam, and I think it’s terrible.
Parents are a career that requires lifelong learning. If you are not ready, really, don't give birth to children!
This choice is not only responsible for yourself, but also for the whole society.
But there are too many parents who have not brought happiness to their children, but have caused endless harm to their children.
The Cannes award-winning film " How Home " is a very sad movie.
12-year-old Zane was born in a Syrian slum. The streets full of rubbish, small rooms crowded with children, and playmates full of swear words are his childhood. Every day, in addition to working for a grocery store and selling cheap juices, I also help my parents make drugs when I get home after get off work.
Zane’s family has a total of 7 children, and they have been used as tools for their parents to make a living from the moment they were born. His younger sister, who was only one year younger than him, was sold to the grocery store owner as a wife by his parents not long after the first menarche. Eventually passed away due to heavy bleeding during pregnancy. Zane's mother did not feel sorry for her daughter at all, but became pregnant again.
An angry and desperate Zane stabbed the boss and was arrested.
In the court, facing the judge, this passage of Zane drew countless people's tears:
The judge asked: "Zane, who are you going to sue?"
He said: "I want to sue my parents."
Judge: "Why are you suing your parents?"
He said: "Because they gave birth to me."
I will never forget the hoarse complaint when Zane called the media in the juvenile management office:
"I hope adults listen to me. I hope that all those who are unable to raise children will not have children. Regarding childhood, all I remember is violence, abuse, beatings, iron chains... The softest words they have ever said is "Rabbi! "Get out", "Get out of the way, waste." Life is a pile of shit, no more valuable than my shoes. I live in hell, like a pile of rotten meat."
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The movie has brought us too much thinking...
Parents who are unable to give their children a complete love, what qualifications do they have to take them into this world arbitrarily?
May you not be a selfish and confused parent, and hope that tragedies like this will not happen again and again!
May every little angel who landed on earth be born out of love, live out of love, and grow up surrounded by love.
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