Thinking is like sowing, and action is like fruit. The more you sow, the more you harvest. Only a child who is good at independent thinking can taste the golden autumn jade liquid and enjoy the joy of harvest bestowed by the earth. As the great physicist Einstein said: "Learning to think and judge independently is more important than acquiring knowledge." Parents should cultivate their children's ability to think independently, and gradually guide their children to recognize the world, appreciate life, and think about their own future.
Ren Huan, a famous contemporary Chinese poet, was born in 1975. She wrote poems at the age of 7, published works at the age of 9, published the first collection of poems at the age of 10, and joined Hebei Writers Association at the age of 12, 18 He was admitted to the Chinese Department of Peking University. Ren Huan has published several collections of poems and essays, published nearly 500 articles of various kinds, and has won many international and domestic literary awards. Ren Huan did not talk when she was a child. This is related to her suffering from allergic asthma . This kind of living habit made her naturally form the habit of being good at observing with eyes and listening with ears, and also formed the habit of her independent thinking.
Ren Huan likes to write. When the author's father taught her to observe and think, she learned how to observe and think through her own body. . A 7-year-old child not only described various changes in nature in his diary,And pay attention to observing people, observing people's psychology, and then thinking about society and life. "Anthology of Ren Huan's Poems by a 10-year-old Girl" is the crystallization of her observation and thinking about life. The famous poetry critic Xie Mian called her poems speculative.
Some parents have arranged everything properly and thoughtfully, and they have never thought about how to solve them and what they need to deal with. Yes, it kills the child's ability to think, let alone the ability to solve problems.
Parents can cultivate children's ability to think independently from the following aspects:
1. Create an atmosphere of thinking for children _pstrongp strong20p strong20p _span13 It is important to form a unique personality for children, and to show innovative thinking and behavior. Parents should not regard the child as an accessory of the adult because he is too young and needs adult care, and he must be controlled by the adult. The child is also a complete and independent individual, and he should be allowed to have his own world and his own space. For example, allowing children to have bizarre ideas, giving them a place where they can “set up a stall” on their own, accepting reasonable suggestions from children to adults, and trusting children to guarantee every time. Parents may wish to visit museums, zoos, science and technology museums with their children, and read or watch TV with their children. Then ask the child what he saw and what he heard. Only to maintain harmony between family members,Living on an equal footing, discussing and discussing with each other when things happen, let children grow up in an equal atmosphere, without restraint and pressure, in order to have an open mind, a happy mood, and the light of creative thinking will shine from time to time.
There is a saying "what kind of parents teach what kind of children". Therefore, when parents try to inspire their children's creativity, don't forget to cultivate your own creativity and make parents capable Appreciate creativity and can interact with children creatively. Therefore, parents should not create competitive pressure between their children, nor should they make family life stressful and heavy in order to cultivate creativity, nor should they change the normal and become serious and overly serious parents. As a parent, if you want to become a truly successful creativity trainer, you should be able to learn and grow together with your child, listen to your child’s heart like a close friend, understand your child’s behavior, know when to give him applause, and when to support him. Never ridicule, never discouraged, no order, no depression.
Second, let the child learn to think frequently with the parents of the _span20 strong _strong _span2913sp Conduct discussion-style consultations, leave room for children to think for themselves, and give them the opportunity to put forward their own ideas. Parents can often ask questions based on the content of the conversation, such as: "What is the relationship between the two?" "What do you think will be better?" "What is the basis for your idea?" and other questions, arouse children's thinking. For children who go to school,Heuristics can be used to induce children to gradually start thinking. When a child is thinking about a problem, parents should not be too enthusiastic or impatient. They should leave enough time for the child to think, especially not to tell them the answer easily. When children are wrong, use improving questions to help them think and inspire them to discover and correct their mistakes.
Third, give the child a chance to think independently
Confucius said: "Learning without thought Nothing.” This sentence illustrates the relationship between learning and thinking, and it emphasizes the importance of thinking. Looking through the history, we can find that almost all scientific people have a strong curiosity beyond ordinary people, such as Madame Curie, Edison, Darwin, etc. They have been quite strong since childhood. curiosity. When children have questions in their minds, they start a series of questions: "Why?" How can parents guide them correctly, without suppressing their curiosity, children's curiosity will definitely become more and more prosperous, because children's curiosity is to explore novelty The beginning of things.
Lin Yinghao, who won the International Mathematical Olympiad bronze medal and the Asia Pacific Mathematical Olympiad silver medal, has given him many opportunities to train his thinking skills since he was a child. Strong curiosity drove him to keep asking frequently,Mr. Lin and his wife taught the child some common sense in response to the child's questions, collected teaching materials from daily life, and cultivated the child's thinking ability through clever arrangements. Usually when a child has a question, Mr. Lin and his wife ask him to think about it instead of giving him an answer right away. Occasionally encounter a difficult problem, the child will figure it out after a brief hint, if there is really no way, the parents will tell him the answer. Parents might as well ask children to think about frequently by asking some questions, so that they can think and explore more, seek a variety of ways and methods to develop ideas, and find the best answer from the various possible ways to solve the problem.
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