The precepts and deeds of parents and teachers exist in the daily life. Without the guidance of correct values, even with excellent grades, children will deviate from the correct course of life.
For a child's life, grades are important, but appropriate social skills are also very important. In today's society, the growth of children is accompanied by many unfair incidents.
At this time, as parents and teachers, you must tell the children at the first time that when you have done nothing wrong, you must bravely speak your own thoughts, strengthen your beliefs, and do everything you can to protect yourself.
Recently, such an incident happened at Tsinghua University, a university in China. The younger brother inadvertently touched the younger sister's ass in the school cafeteria, and then the younger sister called the security guards and shouted, hoping to let everyone know. Suddenly, overwhelming scolding on the Internet followed, and the elder sister admitted frankly that she would let the younger student "communicate" in her circle of friends. The sharp remarks like
made the juniors fall into desperation. When people were immersed in the condemnation of the juniors, things took a turn for the better. Through monitoring,
discovered that the younger brother did not intentionally do it, but the younger sister exaggerated and arbitrarily framed it, which caused a serious impact.
Having said that, I can't help but think, if the boys' parents were actually notified, what kind of harm would they cause? The children who have worked so hard to raise themselves have entered such an excellent school to study, but their lives have been ruined by a mouth. They should be desperate.
stood from the boy's point of view. He was brave at the time and said no; bravely explained to everyone that he didn't do that; bravely strived to adjust the monitoring to protect himself.
believes that seeing this, most people can't help but think of themselves. If this happens to your own child, what should you do?
A series of things that are beyond our control will happen on the path of children's growth. So how to make children stronger and more capable of defending their rights? It must be inseparable from the teachings of parents and teachers.
Many parents are very busy at work and cannot communicate with their children often. As a result, their children are very strange to their parents and are unwilling to share a series of things that happened at school. Whether it is pleasant or infuriating. Even if you are bullied or wronged, you will not tell your parents the first time you get home. Because you haven't told him firmly how to face these incidents. In the face of injustice and violence, you must bravely say no.
, on the other hand, is from the perspective of a senior, what kind of education is behind such excellent results. Let it be able to speak without shame, and declare to the society without thinking, the harm that others have done to oneself out of nothing. Such selfishness and indiscriminate indiscriminateness are so terrible. She has not thought about the consequences, everything is only for her own emotions.
A girl who insists on her remarks will win everyone's sympathy and will allow more people to appeal for her. But I never thought about it.
As a relatively weak group of girls, I suggest that parents must cultivate their children's perseverance, and if they really encounter injustice, they must be brave to point out. But you can't talk nonsense while getting more help on your own.
, regardless of men and women, must recognize right and wrong. While this society has given children more rights, it must also allow children to constantly understand their obligations and responsibilities at an early age. This important task naturally falls on the parents and teachers. Only if we pass on the correct values, our society will become better and better.
academic qualifications can only represent part of it. Before improving academic performance, the most important thing is to learn to be an indomitable, capitalized person.
