On the surface, DINK and the couple are free and carefree. They don’t have to raise children and have little burden. They can go wherever they want to go, carefree and lively. There is no best of both worlds in the world, everything has advantages and disadvantages.
First of all, although having children is tiring in the first half of life, the joy and fulfillment that children bring is something that DINK men and women cannot experience. Only when a woman gives birth to a child can she realize that being a mother is not easy. Only when a couple has a child can they realize how hard it is for their parents to give birth to and raise them. Only those who have experienced this kind of experience have filial piety and can be more considerate of the sufferings of the world. And the DINK couple are like There are shortcomings in this regard. They never understand that human life can be more perfect.
Although it is the freedom of personal choice whether to have children after marriage, the Creator has given living creatures the ability to reproduce. As a human being, wouldn’t it be a pity to give up this ability when you are young?
Yes, couples with children, the older one and the younger one, work hard every day to earn money, and think about how to educate their children and cultivate their talents every day in their spare time, but those DINKs are not busy in this regard, they can eat, drink and have fun in their spare time without the burden of children. of happiness. However, many lonely old people around us are so helpless, lonely, desolate and pitiful in their later years. When they are sick or have difficulty moving, the sky and the earth are not working. If you have children and grandchildren, even if you are not financially able and do not have much filial piety, you must have something to look forward to. hope.
The first half of a person's life is about working to earn money, raising children, and creating a better life. The second half of life is about harvesting, reaping family happiness, and reaping filial piety. There was an old couple in the village. They had gone to college when they were young, and they were both busy with their careers. They said they would have a career first and then have children. Later, the girl passed her prime fertile period and tried to conceive by artificial means, but because of her age and various ailments, she was unable to succeed. The couple can only keep having sex. Now that they are old and retired, they return to their hometown. When they are sick, they ask people to take them for treatment. When they see other people's families full of children and grandchildren, the envious eyes make people sympathize.
For another example, I have a cousin who had no children when he was young. Now he is in his sixties and is alone. My grandfather gave birth to my father, uncle and aunt. My father, uncle and aunt all have children. It is so lively that we I would also take my grandparents on trips, eat big meals and see the scenery, and tell them all kinds of fun things, but my dad’s cousin did not have this blessing.
In short, the life of DINK does more harm than good. Most people should give birth to children at the age of having children, so that they will have no regrets in life.
