I saw an article with such a title on my mobile phone today, and while I was talking about this child and her mother with my roommate, I suddenly felt that it was so appropriate. Although we are taking care of kindergarten children now, as the saying goes: three years old looks older, seven years old looks older. So if you look at the children now, you can actually know their future development.
Of course, some people will say that this is too absolute. We do not rule out the possibility of changing our destiny later through our own efforts and the help of others.
Let’s go back and tell my story!
I once took care of a little girl. This little girl loves beauty very much. She wears corresponding skirts no matter in summer or winter. She also likes to wear leather shoes and so on. I have also said before that I don’t like little girls. Wear skirts and leather shoes in kindergarten, because for the health of the child, sports and comfortable clothes are the most suitable for the child to wear to school. We can't control her beauty if she wears a skirt.
I went to school one morning. I don’t know why. My mother scolded and cried my child at home and sent him to school. The child’s mood was very unstable. He was coaxed in the classroom for a long time. When he came back from morning exercises, the child’s mood became worse again and he had to change into a new one. Little leather shoes go home. We were carrying out normal work, so naturally we couldn't keep around her, so I asked the childcare teacher to hold her and continue to comfort her. I helped her change out of her leather shoes, threw them beside the shoe cabinet, and went to class.
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At about 8 o'clock in the evening, his mother came to me and asked me: You disrespect my children too much. How could you throw away my daughter's most beloved little leather shoes?
When I saw this question, I was instantly confused. Why did I just throw away her little leather shoes? Thinking back, did my actions cause her to misunderstand? Did her heart get hurt? Just disrespect her?
The next day, when the little girl went to school, I explained to her what happened yesterday and the corresponding actions that caused her misunderstanding. I said to her: I'm sorry, can you forgive me? The little girl didn't react at all after listening to my statement, so I said it again. She still didn't express her position, so I asked her: Is this okay? She nodded, and I left. After all, it was very busy when I entered the park.
The next night, my mother came to see me again and said that her daughter said that I had not apologized to her. I told her mother how I apologized, and she said again: You apologized, but your apology was not sincere enough. My child I haven't forgiven you.
I was not happy at this time. As a teacher, I can take a step back and reflect on my behavior, make concessions, and apologize to my children. I already bowed my head. Why did your child feel that my apology was not sincere enough and did not forgive me? my question?
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