Many parents fall into a misunderstanding, thinking that in order to prevent their children from sexual harassment, they should enhance their moral awareness from an early age. On the contrary, to prevent children from being sexually harassed, we should be demoralized and not make moral judgments and condemnations on children's behavior from an adult perspective.
The weapon of shame is so useful that many parents will abuse it and do everything possible to make their children feel ashamed. They feel that as long as the children feel ashamed of themselves, it is a successful teaching. As mentioned before, some parents will easily label their children as "selfish" because they are reluctant to drink from their own straws.
In fact, parents do not need to over-interpret or elaborate from an adult perspective. They only need to take his hands away and tell their children calmly and calmly that this is not good and unhygienic.
It is too easy to say "selfish", "dirty" and "shameless", but the negative impact it causes may not be eliminated for a lifetime. Every time parents impose moral condemnation and every time a child feels humiliated, the construction of his positive self-concept will be reduced by one point until it is gone.
When a child has a negative understanding of himself and feels that he is not worthy of being a "good person", making "good" friends, and living a "good" life throughout his life, he will eventually become the type of person you hate the most. .
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