Text/An Dongyue
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Everyone has emotions, happy, sad, proud, frustrated, angry, angry, etc.
It is normal to have emotions, but when you have emotions, if no one understands you, you will feel very lost and lonely.
Whether it is positive emotions or negative emotions, they all need an outlet. There is no outlet, and all the emotions are suppressed, which will drive people crazy over time.
I don’t know if you have this feeling. There are hundreds of friends in your address book, but there are not many people you often contact. It is almost always just those few. And among the people who are in constant contact, not everyone can speak their mind. Many times, after all, you still have to deal with many things alone.
Carrying it alone is both strong and helpless. If there is such a person who can truly understand oneself, understand oneself, and always stand firmly with oneself, who would be willing to bear it alone and face it alone?
Because I couldn't meet anyone who really understood me, I tried my best to make myself as strong as possible. Gradually, I got used to loneliness and got used to bearing everything alone.
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In the past, did you often ask in your heart, why no one understands me? It seems that others should understand you and understand you.
And now you will never ask such silly questions again. Because you already understand that no one should understand you, understand you, put you at the center of everything, and consider you everywhere. What people care about most in their hearts is always themselves.
The same goes for yourself, otherwise you wouldn't blame others.
After half a life, ups and downs, I finally see through the essence of life. Most of the relationships between people are based on convenience. If there is no convenience, there will be no friends. Without convenience, there will be ruthlessness. That kind of pure relationship and pure emotion is ultimately out of reach.
We believe that there is infinite beauty in the world, and we also look forward to meeting it, but in fact we are not sure in our hearts. After all, we have already seen the cruelty of reality. Whether it is love or friendship, it is either defeated by reality or stranded by time and distance. How can one dare to ask for understanding deep in the soul?
No one understands, no one understands, it is a very sad thing, but if you really don’t have that blessing, you can only accept the reality.
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The human world is not a pure land, and everyone has his own suffering. Everyone has unspeakable bitterness and wants to find someone to talk to, but can never find the right person.
The so-called truly suitable person is someone who is willing to listen, understands, and can fully understand himself. However, it is difficult to meet such people, and they need to have a deep bond with each other.
When fate arrives, the right people will naturally meet and get to know each other. Even if we are separated by thousands of rivers and mountains, we will definitely meet by chance at the corner of time.
In this world, there are always people who are lucky. They have people who understand, people who understand, and people who accompany them. There is someone to share happiness with, and there is someone to share sadness with. You can find an outlet for any emotion, and you will never feel lonely.
If you are lucky enough to have met such a person, then I sincerely wish you the best.
A person who knows you, understands you, and is willing to accompany you throughout your life is something you can meet but cannot ask for. Everything you encounter is lucky, so you must cherish it. Don't chill the other person's heart because of your own hindsight. You know, if any relationship wants to be long-term and stable, it needs to be cared for by both parties.
If you haven't met him yet, then I hope you can be a strong-hearted person, fearless, confident and brave.
At the same time, I hope you will meet each other as soon as possible, and from now on, someone will know you, understand you, and accompany you, so that you can have the most beautiful and warmest feelings in the world.
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, writes heartfelt words with a warm touch, hoping to meet you in the deepest world of mortals. Welcome to pay attention.
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