There is "more sincerity, less routine" in front of it. Recently, a hot saying has been circulated: " Sincerity is the ultimate skill ". Like kindness, sincerity is also a beautiful quality that is often spoken by us and always touching. Life is rare to be sincere, and it is rare to be sincere all the time. Today, the ripples of the words "sincerity" are filled with you, and I will encourage you: forever, try my best to be a sincere and open person.
"Those moments when were hit by sincerity"
"Sincerity is the killing skill", when I wrote this sentence, I realized that I had already lost something. I don’t know when I started to weigh the pros and cons, get used to the decoration of impressions, get used to observing words and expressions, get used to speaking but stopping, get used to holding on, , but I found that I always impressed me, and back and forth were still the simplest human virtues: pure, cute, kind, brave, and firm.
@ There is a flower watering
I found that among all the beautiful qualities, sincerity may be the most "slack", the least effortless and most efficient quality.
is just like a movie line, " In fact, many times, you don't need to do anything, be sincere ." You don't have to wear a social mask, don't bother hiding it, there are not so many turns in the song, there are not so many misunderstandings and suspicions, it is true that you love someone, and it is true that you hate someone. Even if your way of interacting with the world is not so perfect, it is true and open. Is there anything more invincible than having a true heart to travel around the world? After all, not everyone can do it.
@The Zweig of the world yesterday
I think it is quite valuable to be able to reply to your message seriously. After being ignored, perfunctory, and tricked, you can more and more realize how warm those who are willing to respond sincerely to you and are willing to treat you with your heart are .
@Did you pass the exam this year?
Sincerity has always been my first rule of contact, and I will always open my mind to those who come to me with sincerity.
@一可小高清
In fact, the cost of being insincere is particularly high.
Even if you are a person with a big nerve, one day you suddenly find that the person opposite you are not sincere to him, and the door in his heart will be closed. And you don’t know how much effort it takes to knock it open again, and can you still knock it open again . Whether it is colleagues, friends or lovers, the same is true. I really feel that people get along with others, kindness and sincerity are the biggest skill.
@无无无无无无无无无人 yy
I think,
If you have a true color, it must be a clean and clear transparent color.
@Linglinghou
Sincerity is always the most likable. No matter what relationship , for example, expressing love, instead of thinking about stacking adjectives, degree adverbs, and thinking about every sentence out of nowhere sew, it is better to say whatever you think in your heart. I always remember that Muxin said: The conciseness of words comes from the sincerity in the heart. "I love you 120,000", it is better to "I love you".
@ Lowercase
I think it is difficult to live completely according to your own will, and there will be some time to compromise. But I hope, or ask myself: remain kind, sincere and open, and remember the bottom line you set when making any choices and decisions.
In this way, when every night comes, I can be open and at ease; at any time, I can say to myself: I live a life that is worthy of my heart.
@Xiaoxing
On my life, I will be a sincere person , Don’t give up on my love and persistence for life , Live infinite and vast days in a limited time and space.
sanmao
️Sincerity is always a "serious move" - Reader Dong Hua Audio: 00:0007:50
"Sincerity,
is always a "serious move"
Author | Chen Guo
Sincerely to your family, you don't have to pretend to be a good life.
Many people are often accustomed to " Report good news but not bad news ". When communicating with their parents, they often skip a certain unsatisfactory exam result in an unsatisfactory exam, fail to experience , or deliberately conceal the grief and depression of the broken heart stage, or lock the deepest pain, the most entangled worries, the most real emotions, and the most passionate dreams in the deepest heart. They would rather suppress themselves for a long time than admit them to their parents, so as not to be worried about it by their parents.
I myself was such a "good child" who "reports good news but not bad news". Until one time I talked to my mother about this, she said: " As your closest person, what I want to know most is your real situation, including your pain and troubles. I will also follow the pain and troubles, but I still hope that you will tell me the truth and not lie to me. I don't want to go from Others know, or they don’t know at all. Maybe I can’t help, but I hope to share it with you. ”
What we can deceive are often those who trust us, and the most unbearable thing for those who trust us is that we deceive them . What we want to protect and soothe the most is the people we sincerely love, so we put on the carefully drawn "smile mask" for them, while the people who truly love us just want us to take off our masks and show it with our true face. Even behind the mask is a frown face.
Have your lover sincerely, you don’t have to pretend to be the most perfect.
True love must come from real understanding. The depth of understanding a person determines the depth of your love for him. Some people, you like them because you don’t understand them. If you really understand them, you don’t like them. Such a relationship is just a vague aesthetic of a distance, and getting closer is a kind of harm.
Of course, there are some people, the more you understand him, the more you like him and be fascinated by him. You find that he has many unknown beauty, which brings you unexpected surprises, and you are more convinced that this is the person you are waiting for.
Only by knowing deeply can you have deep love.
Only when you understand him more and more, understand his nature, his true nature, and his inner world will you understand more and more how you should love and care more properly for such a person and such a spiritual world.
When you see more and more clearly what makes your heart move and what is what your heart loves, you will understand more and more what kind of person you are.
occasionally reflects on himself and compares with the "I" who had known him before he met him. He finds that unknowingly, is becoming a more sincere, braver, stronger, more reasonable, and more worthy of his respect. At this time, we will understand that we are happy and lucky to have such lovers.
Sincerely to friends, you don’t have to hide your truest self.
"Friends" are sincerity - truthfulness and honesty. In front of him, I can be myself . I can just think quietly or stare blankly, but not worry about the embarrassment of the cold situation. My nerves can relax to the point of thinking, thinking, and worrying.
The sincere "friends" are "favorites". They are not playmates, drinking friends, comforters when they are lonely, and spiritual refuges. is not a "connection" based on interests or practical effects, nor is it a cliché or social rhetoric that is casually spoken on the scene.
"Friends" are people who are equal to each other in personality and spirit.
Help each other to explore their natural self, and try their best to protect each other's true nature without forcing each other to change, reward or respond. This is the way to be a friend.
Be sincere to yourself, you don’t have to make everyone like it.
Many times, we always want to make ourselves look more beautiful and perfect in the eyes of others and in the public's evaluation. So we train ourselves, build ourselves, and package ourselves according to the public's definition of "beautiful" and "perfection", and try our best to cater to and conform to the recognized set of standards. As a result, some people really praise us, and we also enjoy such results.
But from time to time we calm down and be alone, we feel that we are very strange, far away from our true nature , our nerves are so tense and so anxious inside. Over time, depression and numbness gradually grow, and indifference coexists with vanity.
makes oneself shine in the eyes of others, attracting the envy and praise of strangers from others and passers-by and strangers-many people regard this as a kindness to themselves. In fact, this is not true self-love, but more like a kind of "self-lost". is completely without observing, respecting and accepting the true self, but it is full of ignorance, dislike and suppression of the self-nature.
In fact, no matter how perfect a person is, there are always people who like it and there are always people who don’t like it. If that's the case, we can live as ourselves, live more authentically and more realistically. Anyway, there will still be people who like you and some who don't like you. But at least you will like yourself more, don't you ?
reorganized from "Fudan Famous Teacher Chen Guo: Life Philosophy Course"
Title and yellow subtitle marked with the editor's self-written
picture | Visual China
loves sincerely and smiles sincerely,
cares sincerely, hates sincerely,
fights sincerely, embraces sincerely, and say goodbye sincerely. "
I wish you--
keeps love and kindness,
lives sincerely and brightly !
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Producer丨 Zhang Tianyu
Editing丨Wang Ruolu Proofreading | Shaozhuo
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