Be a confused smart person
Since ancient times, people have believed that confused people are often wise and know how to deal with the world. Even if such people are not as smart people, they know how to tolerate and not express themselves. In this world, smart people are often those who know how to keep a low profile. This is an era of no struggle and no struggle, and we should not fight for everything. Being smart is not necessarily a bad thing. Being a foolish and smart person is a truly smart person.
01 Don’t fight or grab
People often say that people live in a lifetime to strive to understand and live clearly. But what you need to know is that struggle is just an expression of emotions and cannot solve the root of things. Fighting will only make you fall into endless struggles; grabbing will only make you lose your bottom line. Truly smart people know not to compete or rob. Only when a person loses everything can he know how to stop loss in time. There is a saying that goes, "A snake swallows an elephant if it is not enough." If you don't have a little vigilance and measure, you will be eaten sooner or later. Therefore, not fighting or robbing is not an incompetent act, but a clever act.
02 Don’t be too concerned about
We all like to get along with friends. If you don’t get along well, you will be very annoyed and will easily have disputes with others. In fact, in life, there are many times when we are calculating with others. If you are too careful, it will not only leave a bad impression on others, but will also cause you to lose many friends. Therefore, proper care is a manifestation of being smart.
03 Know how to stop
"Laozi" says: "A gentleman does something but does not do anything." The so-called doing something means not interfering too much in others within the scope of the responsibility you should bear, and not overly forcing your own behavior. If you don’t do anything, you will try not to interfere in other people’s affairs within your ability. The Analects of Confucius says: "If you do not do what you see, you will not be brave; if you do what you see, you will not be righteous; if you do what you see, you will not be brave." A truly smart person knows what things should not be done; if you do too much, you will be annoying; if you do too much, you will lead to regrets in life.
04 Stay away from villains
The so-called villains are actually those who are good at using sweet words. They often have improper purposes and can always find their traps in life. Some people, as if they are good at pretending to be themselves, are always able to find places where others do the wrong things and then use others to achieve their goals. Those smart people will choose to stay away from villains or choose not to offend villains, thus stay away from villains. A villain is always the enemy that harms the world. If we can keep a distance from such a person, then we may be able to have less or unnecessary trouble. Instead of letting villains harm ourselves, it is better to let villains become our own biggest enemy.
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