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01, Volume Start
In the years, people are sometimes like leaves, wrapped in the wind, and they can't help falling from the trees.
On the road of drifting life, everyone is constantly looking for their own place of belonging.
A woman’s life has been given too many missions.
He is a good wife, a mother, a daughter-in-law, and a daughter, but no one has ever told her to love herself and live with respect.
Yishu said in " My First Half of Life ": "My Home is Health and Talent. What a person can trust after all is himself, and it is himself who can be proud of him."
A woman's heart will truly find herself and live as herself.
A woman, who is truly mature, actually has three words: be yourself.
02. Be your own woman, be good at rejecting
mature women, no longer blindly follow, and refuse to make excessive efforts.
A mature woman in her heart becomes stronger inside, no longer afraid of rejecting others, and no longer lives in the eyes of others.
" only thirty" is a "good guy" in the unit.
Her colleagues are always used to asking her to help do trivial things, buying coffee, printing documents, cleaning, etc.
Every time she was embarrassed to refuse, feeling that it didn’t matter if she was troubled. The important thing was to have a good relationship with her colleagues.
However, her efforts did not receive the kindness of her colleagues. When choosing a job, colleagues will leave the most difficult things to her without hesitation.
From then on, she began to learn to refuse and no longer respond to her colleagues' requests.
colleague did not lose his temper because of her rejection. Everything was as usual, but she relieved a lot of pressure and released her negative emotions.
A truly mature woman knows how to protect her own interests and no longer blindly pays to please others.
Writer Sanmao once said: "When a person asks for it, he has prepared two answers in his heart. Therefore, giving him any answer is what he expects."
A mature person who knows how to refuse will let the people around him know your principles and bottom line, which is actually more conducive to the management of various interpersonal relationships.
03. Good at being your own woman, live independently
On the road of life, truly mature people dare to be themselves, live independently, and can firmly establish their goals and dreams.
Miyazaki said: "Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When the separation comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar."
A mature woman has her own career and circle of friends, and can make the decision for her destiny.
is willing to learn more for the sake of your dreams and career, so that you can have a broader mind and a bigger picture.
is good at being your own woman, lives very independent, and does not like to rely on others. In life, you will always improve your ability to make money and make yourself better and stronger.
A mature woman can live a wonderful life with her own strength, so she will exude a confident and mature charm.
People are like magnets. What kind of people and things they will encounter are determined by their own status.
A woman who truly becomes mature starts by knowing how to learn to rely on herself.
Only when a woman lives independently, realizes her dreams and lives her ideal life can she reap true happiness and truly live her life.
04. Be your own woman, be strong in your heart
A mature woman will no longer please others at will for the sake of others' eyes.
On the road of life, no matter what you do, there will always be people who support and oppose it. Everyone has a different position, and if they don’t have their own opinions, they will lose their direction.
Mature women know how to be firm in themselves.Believe that the path you choose must be right and willing to work hard to defend it.
doesn't care about other people's fingers, but they are too worried about other people's opinions, and they will not live in the eyes of others in order to make everyone like and recognize them.
A mature woman who is good at being herself and knows how to please herself.
In this world, it is difficult for anyone to empathize with it. A woman with a strong heart does not need to know how to explain to those who sarcastically mock her.
A mature woman knows how to make herself happy, not force herself to do things she doesn't like.
won't change your decision to please anyone.
Firmly moving in the direction you like is the greatest respect for yourself and the years.
05. Summary
On the road of life, be a mature woman.
continues to grow, firmly in your heart, and let yourself live with direction and dreams. Be firm in your lifestyle and not be disturbed by anyone too much.
In interpersonal relationships, you know how to advance and retreat in moderation, and do not compromise yourself in the things that make you embarrassed.
does not live for anyone, does not put yourself into any identity, and lose yourself.
No matter what stage of life you are in, try to live out yourself. Stick to your own ideas and decisions and follow the inner building of your ideal perfect world.
When hearing sarcasm, mocking, contempt and denial, don’t be distracted, but do your self-appreciation and recognition.
In this world, not everyone will understand you. You don’t have to affect your rhythm because of irrelevant people.
A mature woman has long bid farewell to her "glass heart" and constantly strengthens herself. Living for yourself makes people live without regrets.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
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