Article author: Taofa Nature
Grasp the sense of boundaries and sense of measure and be a person with high emotional intelligence!
Everyone has self-esteem, especially Chinese people pay more attention to face and love face. No matter how high or low it is, it is the same.
In the ever-changing life, if you can grasp the right measure when doing things and treat people, be relaxed and relaxed, and not cross the line, you will be a person with a very high level.
Dessert If you use too much, it will become a drug; the reasonable side will not forgive others if you are reasonable, and if you go too far, you will become an unreasonable person.
Birds eat ant when they are alive, and are eaten by ants when they are dead. So don’t be too arrogant in life, keep aside in front of others, so you can meet in the future.
Low-key life, high-profile work, low-key life, high-level, high-level, humble or arrogant, is the highest level of being a human being!
. Don’t be too overly a person
Don’t be too overly a person or doing things. Leave room for others, and leave a way out for your future...
In life, when people have disputes or even fight each other, they usually say this sentence: He is too overly!
Many tragic endings and bloody lessons are sometimes caused by being too rampant and too excessive when doing things alone.
There is a saying in China: Don’t beat people with smiley faces. However, some people always go against the taboos of being a human being and are eventually swallowed by their own "intellectual demons".
In 2018, the anti-killing incident of "Brother Long" in Kunshan that was spread all over the country is a good negative textbook and a good mirror. Let us deeply understand the consequences of "excessiveness".
Facing an honest man who "don't fight back if he scolds, and fights against him", he finally had to use a knife to hurt him. As a result, his sword fell to the ground, was picked up by the victim, and he "counterattacked." He didn't even have the chance to correct himself.
will come out and you will have to pay it back sooner or later!
2. Leave aside in front of people, and meet in the future
Anonymous said: Don’t eat too much rice, don’t say too much.
There is a poem in "The Fu of Cold Kiln": The palace maids in the deep courtyard retreated and became prostitutes; the romantic prostitutes were matched as ladies at the time.
This sentence clearly shows that no one can guarantee the "trend" of a person's destiny. You are above people today, and you may be below people tomorrow.
When you are above others, don’t go too far when you speak and do things, and don’t leave yourself the root of disaster.
In the TV series " Tiandao ", the powerful "Lesheng" group is citing a small company's "regular poem" to lower the price. Using unfair competition as an excuse, he sued the " meter " group and claimed 6 million yuan.
"Metric Song" Group's largest shareholder Ouyang Xue and general manager Ye Xiaoming received the complaint, personally took out 100,000 yuan in cash and arrived at the Shenzhen "Lesheng" headquarters to come to the door to apologize and make peace. I hope that the "Sage of Music" can withdraw the lawsuit and turn swords into jade.
However, when Lin Yufeng, president of "Lesheng" Group, arranged a lot of media and reporters to expose the scene on the spot when meeting them.
Lin Yufeng refused to say anything on the spot and said in front of the media: "If the lawsuit is lost, he will jump down from the upper floor."
Later, the "Le Sheng" group lost the lawsuit. Lin Yufeng fulfilled his promise, chose to commit suicide, and drove off the cliff!
If you want to forgive others, you will forgive others. If you don’t say anything, you will stop until you reach it. This is a state of mind and a level of being a human being!
3. Understanding the principle of proportion is a kind of life wisdom
Franklin said: Fish will smell bad for three days, and guests will stay for three days!
The relationship and distance between you and others must be accurately and appropriately grasped. You must not overestimate the relationship with others, otherwise you will be the one who is "embarrassing".
The same is true for friends to get along with each other in life. It depends on whether there is a joke in the same level as the interaction, and it is also necessary to distinguish the occasion and see if it is suitable for jokes. There are too many cases where you can’t joke about it in life, which leads to “turning your back”.
When there is a conflict with people, it is even more important to grasp the degree.There is a saying in China: Use the way of others to treat others.
I can accept bullying from others, but I have to be moderate. Blindly giving in will only make myself suffer. When fighting back, you must also grasp the right position and click until the other party is hurt. Just understand and leave room for space. After all, it is not about fighting with the enemy on the battlefield, but about "Life and Death."
Whether you can grasp the degree determines the height of a person's life!
Conclusion:
Prepare some firewood to keep yourself warm in the future!
Don’t learn from Lin Yufeng, you are too strong and do things too terrible. Either you die or I live. Instead, you must be full of wisdom, know how to be a sensible person, and leave yourself a way out and leave room for maneuver.
You can start over if you fail, but it is irreversible if you fail. Do not do whatever you want when you want, be rigorous and cautious in your life to avoid leaving any disaster for yourself in the future.
A person's wisdom is his friend, and a person's fallacy is his enemy.
Grasp the limit, the best life wisdom!
2022.10.5
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