A person’s true strength is his inner strength.
What if the heart does not move? If your heart is not hurt, how can you get sick?
The stronger your heart is, the better the world is.
Handle calmly in adversity
Life ups and downs are the norm, we cannot control it, but we can choose to face it with what kind of mentality.
The true inner strength is not the courage to fight, but the courage of a saint who is suitable for the times and is not afraid of the times.
In life, we always fall into troughs and adversity. People with strong hearts often face difficulties and accumulate strength. Even if they fall to the bottom in adversity, they still look to the brightness.
" Caigen Tan " has a saying:
"Everyone enjoys good times, while a gentleman is happy from adversity."
The weak choose to escape in adversity, while the strong stand out in adversity.
Only when you don’t give up easily in adversity and become more courageous as you setbacks can you have the chance to fight back.
I believe that everyone who insists on moving against the wind will eventually grow strong wings.
don't care about other people's evaluations
One of the most special weaknesses in human nature is that you care about how others view yourself.
Many times, we always start to doubt ourselves because of someone else’s look or words, and are bound by other people’s thoughts and our own entanglements.
A person with a truly strong heart will not be easily disturbed by external voices, nor will he live in other people's evaluations. is just like the big roc in Zhuangzi " Xiaoyaoyou ", it is about to fly to the South China Sea thousands of miles away.
Cicada and Xuejiu laughed at it and said, "We fly hard, and stop when we hit the elm tree and sandalwood tree . Sometimes we can't fly up, just land on the ground. Why do we have to fly 90,000 miles to the South China Sea?"
Everyone's pursuits are different. Life is ultimately in our own hands. Instead of caring about other people's opinions, it is better to follow our own pace and be loyal to our own hearts.
Remember, your life is never for others to see. Not living in other people’s evaluations, making yourself happy is more important than anything else.
shake hands with loneliness and have fun
Zhuangzi said: "Lonely coming and going is unique. A unique person is the most precious."
The bustling world is easy to make people lose, and people who like to be alone are often better able to cultivate fences and plant chrysanthemums in their hearts.
Biologist Darwin stays in the study for 6 hours a day. In addition, his only activity is to walk in the grove near his home, thus creating "HTM3 Species Origin ".
Hegel 23 received a master's degree in philosophy when he was 423, but he went to the countryside to teach alone. During this period, in addition to teaching classes, he only wrote notes in the dormitory alone, and eventually became a great philosopher.
A person with a strong heart can endure loneliness, enjoy loneliness, and know how to cultivate himself in loneliness.
Because, only when a person learns to be alone can he listen to his own voice, understand his inner needs, and thus gain true freedom.
Learn to have a long talk with loneliness, enjoy the joy of being alone, and be a strong person in your heart.
Don’t easily reveal your emotions
Be calm, because only by calming yourself down can you face all the ups and downs calmly.
People who are truly strong inside never show their emotions easily.
Because they know that is really powerful, there is no need to make a statement .
- Difficult and not complain
In life, no one lives easy, everyone is carrying the burden forward.
People with strong hearts understand:
Instead of complaining about others, it is better to face it calmly.
Only by letting go of your complaining hands can you embrace the beauty of tomorrow.
Just like the sun always comes after the storm, and after the suffering, there will always be rewards worth looking forward to waiting for you. - Thank you and don't complain
In this world, no one can truly empathize with a person's pain.
blindly complaining, like using sea water to quench thirst. The more you drink, the more you become, the thirsty you become.
People with strong hearts have turned the collapse into a silent mode, turning the pain into the motivation to move forward.
Crash is everyone's right, but the collapse that cannot be hidden is just a scar, and the hidden one is called a medal.
When you survive the wave of suffering, you will understand that you are the best harbor.
- hm2hm4
Many times, your self-boasting is just a sensationalist in the eyes of others.
Happiness but not praise is a person's soberness when standing at a high place, and it is also a proof of a person's inner strength.
A person does not need to find his own meaning from others, and success does not need to be proved by comparing with others.
What is truly amazing is your low-keyness when you succeed, your humility when you are proud, and your restraint when you show your edge.
Source | Philosophy Life Network, Fan Deng Reading, one book every night; pictures are from the Internet
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