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In this life, there are many things to do, to earn your own capital in life, to gradually lay a stable foundation in family building, and to strive for more possibilities in career.
Not everyone can have a free and easy attitude towards life, so many people often complete every life task under the pressure of mountains in their thirties, making themselves exhausted.
Character determines the attitude towards life. Among the ancients' writing styles, there were many masters and hermits who lived in seclusion outside the world and were beyond the turmoil of the world. Their attitude towards life is to not care about the world, but only seek a meal and a drink. Their inner pursuit is no longer in material conditions, and their pursuit of a better life is almost materially irrelevant.
However, in today's era, hermits are rare. If anyone wants to survive and develop, he must find a way to gain a foothold in this society.
A person's personality objectively determines the development direction of this person. Different natures adapt to different jobs. As long as you have the desire to make money, you can achieve different futures.
The so-called three hundred and sixty qualities are the top scorers in every qualities. As long as you dare to fight, your personal efforts will definitely be rewarded.
Many people who are crushed by life lament that they have a tragic fate, and the four words "lucky makes people foolish" are always suffocating.
However, sometimes it is not fate that makes people foolish, but personality. Although people with these three personalities are good, their fate is very hard.
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burying hard is a spirit and a spirit, but people who often work hard cannot get the reward they deserve.
People with this spirit are full of tenacity, and they can fully adapt to some of the hardest and most tiring positions, doing work that others cannot do, and having a working state that others cannot reach.
It can be said that no matter what industry you are in, if you want to make achievements in your career, you must have the spirit of hard work, but this spirit cannot occupy everything.
People who have experienced social work more or less know that every industry has its dirtiest and tiring work, and efforts are not proportional to efforts, but there are always people who have to do it.
If a person only knows how to work hard, then he is the best candidate in the eyes of the leader.
Because, people who work hard will not analyze whether this work is worth it and do not know how to refuse arrangements that are unfavorable to themselves.
They have no complaints and are easily treated as targets of exploitation by unscrupulous bosses. The last effort is just a few words of appreciation from the boss.
The most terrifying thing is that these few words of appreciation are enough in the eyes of the exploited person, and do not care whether there is substantial profit.
Always be tolerant and regressive
Be strict with yourself and be lenient to others. This is the reason why teachers and parents have educated their children since childhood.
Tolerance is a good character, which is not only a manifestation of personal inner kindness, but also a contribution to the good atmosphere of the entire society.
lyrics are well sung: "As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world." Maintaining kindness and tolerance is rewarding, but not keeping tolerance and regression in the face of everyone and things.
Endure the calm and calm for a while, take a step back and broaden the sky, and use some of your own losses to avoid conflicts. This is also an option.
You must have a degree in everything, and you cannot face all kinds of oppression and blindly tolerate it. This will only make the perpetrators even more rampant. Sometimes it will not work to overcome evil with good.
The law restricts people's behavior, and those who do evil will eventually pay their own price, which can also be reflected in daily work and life.
When someone bullies others again and again, he needs to fight back strongly. If he is always afraid of things and tolerant, he will always endure all kinds of injustice. How can he not suffer in the long run? You must understand that a good destiny can be fought for by yourself.
is too righteous and too generous
The feelings between brothers and sisters can be said to be stronger than gold and stone. Sometimes the friendship between friends can be like brothers and sisters, and friendship can be comparable to family affection.
And it is also a resource. When people survive in this society, they must have their own connections. The wider the connections, the more resources they have. Mutual benefits and mutual benefits are also a good thing. Treating friendship requires dedication and dedication.
However, there must be a limit to others' efforts and you cannot be too righteous, otherwise the other party will step on your bottom line without any scruples.
Some people have formed a fixed mindset towards their friends in their hearts, and they are very righteous to everyone. No matter whether the other party is good or bad, they will find ways to satisfy them as long as they have some needs, just for the word "righteousness".
There are always people with a heart who will take advantage of their righteousness and constantly seek various benefits in various ways. Some things are originally the ones you take risks, but in the end they make profits. The sentence "Everyone is a brother" makes you want to whitewash the peace.
Maybe, he just treats you to a meal, but you are asked to be "righteous" to him.
Although excessive righteousness can usher in the evaluation of you as "righteous and generous", it will cause substantial losses.
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Being a good person is the basic pursuit of being a human being. We must at least ensure that we can "keeping our own care".
Being a good person means not tolerate others in all kinds of tolerance and regression, and not to take the good evaluation of others as the ultimate pursuit. As the saying goes, good words are not eaten as food, people must have their own pursuit of interests.
Protecting one's own interests is the foundation of survival. People should not be too selfish, but they should not be too concessionate.
While having truth, goodness and beauty in mind, it is important to be brave to fight against all kinds of evil and evil in this world. It is important to seek rewards by giving, and it is equally important to refuse to stop losses. There is no standard for good or bad destiny, and things are done by humans.
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