The best thing that people can't get is the thing they can't get. Once you get that thing, you will find that your desire for it is also disappearing.
people always turn a blind eye to what they already have, but they are deeply in pain that they have never had.
Some people have a happy and fulfilling family, but envy the lives of rich people; some people have countless wealth, but envy the lively and healthy body; some people live freely, but envy the stability and comfort.
The more people care about things they have not obtained, the more painful it will be. Therefore, people should be content and learn to cherish everything they have around them, so that you will not desire things you cannot get.
There is no standard for a good life. Everyone has their own explanation. Some people will feel happy if they make a lot of money, while some people will have a happy life in a room, two people will have three meals.
If you want to live a happy life, you must reduce your desires. No matter how you satisfy your desires, you cannot completely satisfy them, because human desires are endless. The more you care about these things, the more you will suffer.
The more you care about money, the harder your life is
Money is a necessity for our survival in society. As the saying goes, money is not omnipotent, but it is absolutely impossible to have no money.
The reality is that people around you are rich and revolve around you. If you don’t have money, you will be disgusted with dogs when you see it, but if you make money all your life, life has no meaning.
Life is not just about making money, but more about doing things you have never done before. Making money is for spending money, and making money is not the purpose.
is so poor that it is only money left. This is a true portrayal of many successful people. They have lost the qualification to accompany their children for work and even abandoned the person they love.
When you look back one day, you keep losing all the way, the only thing that increases is the balance in your bank card. I, do you really need that much money?
The meaning of life is not entirely about making money. If you earn one million in the first place, you will fantasize about the second and third. Only by doing a good job in the balance between work and life can you enjoy life while doing what you like.
The more you care about others' eyes, the harder your life is
We have all talked about others behind the scenes and heard others discussing us. This is a normal life. You care too much about what others say, but you are just asking for pain. No matter what others say, it will not affect your life. All you can change is your mentality.
people express their opinions easily. It may be a very small thing, just define you as a bad person.
We don’t need to please everyone. Even if you do it perfectly and still consider others, there will still be people who don’t like you.
You don’t need to care about other people’s opinions. Just stick to being yourself. If your persistence can bring everything you want, then you are not wrong.
Awesome people have experienced a stage of disagreement before they rise. Humans are group animals. Positive feedback from the outside world will stimulate our self-confidence, but we cannot give up on ourselves just because we are not recognized.
This way you will only be more painful. Only when you are strong enough will you know that there are far more people who recognize you than those who oppose you.
always cares about gains and losses, the harder your life is
There is a kind of person who likes to be petty. When going to a vegetable market to buy groceries, he will care about the difference of one or two cents with the boss. A little thing must be calculated clearly. People like
think they take advantage of others, but they don’t know that they have lost other people’s trust. In comparison, confused people are more likable.
Compared with the current gains and losses, the affection between people is more valuable. It seems that you have not gained any benefits in this cooperation, but you may get huge benefits in the next cooperation.
Under the interests, people are related to each other. You should not be confused when you should be awake, and don’t be too awake when you should be confused.
Some people say that everything you do now will be rewarded in the future. You may not see any results at the moment. Don’t be anxious, flowers bloom and butterflies will come.
We all know that Tang Yin is not only handsome, but also draws a good painting. In fact, his life was very miserable, and his works were not very famous at that time. It was not until after his death that people recognized his works. Now one of his paintings can be sold for millions.
There is no result you want at the moment, which does not necessarily mean that you are not capable enough. Perhaps the timing is not good, and many talented people create works that are ahead of schedule.
was not understood by people at that time. If you always care about the gains and losses of the present, you will only be depressed, calm down, and look at life with a smile.
The less you want, the happier you live. On the contrary, the more you want, the more painful you live, because you will compare with others, why do the boss like him more than me?
Of course, with stimulation, you will have motivation, but after working hard, you still cannot meet your expectations, and you will only be more painful. The root of pain comes from your desires.
It is not easy for us to let go of our desires. People without desires will feel that life is meaningless.
Everyone has their own desires, but be content and happy. You must focus on the people and things around you so that you will feel happy.
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