people do not live by reason, knowing more truths may break through a wall in your mind.
Once the heart wall is penetrated, people will live more transparently and more clearly. I will read these 15 sentences of
. I hope they will inspire you.
01
Time is not a medicine, but the medicine is in time.
Insights:
Everyone says that time can dilute everything and heal everything.
But in fact, what dilutes everything is that we gradually think through and see through, and what heals everything is that we don’t care and don’t care.
Time itself has no healing function, it just takes time for us to heal.
02
Growing up is a process of constantly fighting monsters and upgrading. As long as you are still alive, this game will not be able to pass the level one day.
Insights:
There is no one-time solution in life. Every age group has troubles and problems that need to be dealt with.
Don’t think about escaping, skip one of the levels.
You thought you skipped it, but in fact it didn't. It will follow you to the next level and the next level.
Then, it continues to accumulate into greater difficulties until it drags you down.
Therefore, you must face everything in the present bravely, and escape is to cause trouble for your future self.
03
is more interesting than meaningful.
Insights:
Many people like to ask about the meaning.
The meaning of work, the meaning of reading, the meaning of making money, the meaning of love, the meaning of life, etc.
But in fact, life is just a long period of time, how can it have so much meaning?
Instead of finding meaning, it is better to make every day interesting.
Every day is ensured that it is interesting and interesting, and the meaning of a lifetime will gradually emerge.
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3 Thoughts are not at the same height, there is no need to convince each other.
Insights:
If possible, try not to convince others, because you will most likely be disappointed.
especially those whose views, patterns and cognition are not on the same level.
Eagle said to the well frog: "The sky is very vast, come out and take a look!"
Well frog will not believe it, it will only look down on it: "How big can it be? It's just as big as dozens of wellheads. What's so great about it!"
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explains this kind of thing, making itself look like a sinner.
insights:
explanations are sometimes a lot of things.
You think you are explaining and clarifying, but in the eyes of others, you are denying and quibbling.
Those who believe and understand you do not need to explain. It’s useless to explain if you don’t believe in someone who doesn’t understand you.
The most important thing is that once you explain, you make yourself look like someone who has made a real mistake.
06
The reason why others can hang things in your heart is because you have the hook first.
Insights:
You are the answer to everything.
When anything happens, don’t rush to find the answers outside, and ask yourself inward: What have I done?
A word from someone else can make you angry, and an action can make you furious.
is often not someone else’s fault, but you admit in advance that he is right and hit your point, so you are angry and embarrassed.
Some people say that Yao Ming is a little short, and Yao Ming doesn't care at all.
But someone scolds you as a 1.5m person, you will definitely feel uncomfortable.
07
If you want others to add icing on the cake, you have to become a brocade first.
insights:
people help and support others, and they all have conditions.
No one wants to help a person who is idle and lazy.
No one is willing to support someone who is not motivated and just live a life of mediocrity.
If others want you to help you, you must first show sincerity and strength to make others feel worthy of helping you.
08
Behind the annoyance, I am actually afraid.
Insights:
The reason why you are upset is because you don’t know what to do.
and don’t know what to do. In fact, it’s not that there is really no way, but I’m just worried that the consequences of this method will make me unbearable.
So, because I am afraid, I am annoyed.
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does not exist and does not respond to this matter, only responses you do not understand.
Insights:
Not speaking or answering questions is a response.
It’s just that we are used to asking and answering whatever we ask and forget that there are other ways of responding in the world, called silence and interruption.
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3 Looking forward to changing immediately, it is an expression of self-hate.
Insights:
Looking forward to change is often dissatisfaction with the status quo.
and expecting to change immediately is usually extremely dissatisfied with the status quo, so that I don’t want to wait for a minute.
On the surface, this is a dissatisfaction with the real environment, but in fact it is a hatred for oneself.
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Don't beautify the road you haven't walked.
insights:
people are like this. If they don’t get anything, they will think what they are good.
The roads that have not been taken and the life that has not been experienced will gradually become the cinnabar mole in my heart.
has not been around, so it is full of beautiful fantasies.
In fact, all roads are the same, both good and bad, and no road has always been filled with flowers.
12
A big secret to happiness: don't want to know other people's affairs.
Insights:
Psychologists say that all human troubles and pains come from interpersonal relationships.
will ignore yourself if you pay too much attention to others.
keeps staring at other people's affairs, how can I still have my own emptiness in my heart?
When you put aside others and focus on yourself, happiness will slowly approach you.
13
The best laziness is to do it well at once.
insights:
The more you don’t want to do anything and are too lazy to do, the more you should strive to do it well at one time.
Because you can't do it well, you have to rework it, and the chance will be doubled.
So do it well at once and get it done in one step, and you will be free from subsequent troubles. This is the most diligent laziness.
14
Setback is something God is helping you plan for a longer-term plan, but I can't tell you now.
Insights:
Every setback is an opportunity for change.
Don’t complain, don’t be discouraged, setbacks are not God punishing you, but helping you.
When you are not afraid of difficulties and smooth out the ups and downs, you can see what gifts are hidden for you in the blind box of fate.
15
The meaning of confession is to indicate the relationship, not to ask for the relationship.
Insights:
confession is to tell the other party that I like you and let him understand your feelings.
Whether the other party accepts it or not, how to deal with your confession is his business, you can't force it.
So, saying it does not mean having it, confessing it does not mean possession. The determination of the relationship between
requires the consent of both parties.
thought that as long as you confess your love, you can determine the relationship, which is a wishful request.
was written at the end
Some people say that I have heard of many truths, but I still can't live a good life.
That's not the reason, it's because we've just heard of it.
There is still a long distance between hearing about it, thinking about it, and doing it.
principle cannot directly make our lives better.
makes our lives better, and we see the essence of things through the truth and make changes.
I hope these words will inspire you a little.
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