Appointed out for dinner with a few people at noon.
How many people are walking along the way, don’t remember who said something? Another person responded and responded very accurately, making people scream.
I reacted slowly and could only smile.
Afterwards, I mentioned the little moment I just now with one of the friends, and I said, can you imagine it? When I encountered such a thing in the past, even if I was not good at speaking, I could still be considered eloquent. Now that others say these things, I am slow to react and often speak in silence.
people can change so much, from being eloquent in the past to being taciturn now.
th friend analyzed it again. Maybe you have written frequently recently and some emotions have been expressed, so I don’t want to say it anymore.
suddenly thought about it. What is the reason why I, who used to be a noisy and talkative me, became a quieter me now?
Perhaps the first reason is to find that many things in life are useless even if they say them, and it is meaningless to win a debate, right?
This should be empathetic for many people, and many things cannot be changed just by saying them. Slowly, I won’t talk about it.
Another reason may be that people can also be judged by speaking. If you are that person, you can know everything; but if you are not that person, you will lose your words and not speculate. says a lot. Even if you sometimes think you have good intentions, you may actually have bad results. So I was silent.
There is another reason, many times it may be because it is tired. My job is mainly based on my own words. Putting aside work occasions, sometimes I really feel tired and no longer want to talk more.
The bigger reason may be that I am really old and learn to digest many things by myself. , there are not so many things that are happy, and even if you say something bad and upset, you can't change the result. Instead, it brings negative energy to others, so you no longer want to say more.
As for what a friend mentioned today, it is also true. Because of the writing channel, I have relieved a lot of negative emotions and seem to have already said a lot to my good friends, so I really have no way to tell anyone much.
Is it good to be smart? Maybe it's good. But it is unknown whether I made enemies by accident in the past and I was hated by others.
Is it good to be taciturn? Maybe some people think it’s not good. After all, in this society, people often see their personality, and maybe there are more opportunities.
But I think this is in good condition at the moment. You don’t need to talk so much, you don’t need to compromise and take care of your surroundings. You just need to have your own rhythm and feel comfortable and comfortable.
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