1. Someone likes you, it is him in you, it reflects the traits he likes, it has nothing to do with you... Someone hates you, it is him in you, it is he projecting on the self he rejects, it has nothing to do with you... You just need to face it calmly and be yourself.
2. Take all the good and bad things as you want. Don’t tell others everything. There is really no empathy in this world, you can only know the cold and warmth.
3. All problems are a matter of time, and all worries are self-seeking worries. ——There is no dust in the heart, and the heart is at ease. Troubles are born from the mind. For the same thing, if you think less, you will be worry-free, and if you think more, you will be trouble-free; for the same problem, if you see the bright side, you will be happy, and if you see the dark side, you will be worried. The joys and sorrows of life are not about how many things you encounter, but about how many things you hold in your heart.
4. No one will accompany you for the rest of your life, so you have to adapt to loneliness, no one will help you for the rest of your life, so you have to struggle for the rest of your life.
5. There are too many things that you can’t stand in life. If you see clearly and understand them, you will be sad. A layer of mist on life is not self-deception, but self-protection. If you are too serious in everything, you will be hard and tired.
6. It is okay to be smart for a person, but don’t think he is smart! Otherwise, either you are a fool or everyone in the world is a fool. It is OK to be a person, but don’t be confused for a while. The most rare thing is the person who is "smart for a lifetime and confused for a lifetime".
7. You don’t have to worry too much about life: it’s better to have more money than you have, it’s better to have ugly people like you, it’s better to have less and healthy people, it’s better to have poor families and rich families, it’s better to have whoever is right or wrong, it’s better to have a safe life.
8. Indulging one's own desires is the greatest harm; talking about other people's privacy is the greatest sin; not knowing one's own faults is the greatest pain.
9. Thank you for those who are nice to you, they might have been wrong to you. Forgive people who are not good to you, they could have been worse to you. Thanks is a kind of cultivation. Forgiveness is even more of a kind of cultivation. Be a well-educated person and have a valuable life.
1. No matter how beautiful one thing is, once there is no result, don’t bother you anymore. You will be tired and tired after a long time; if you keep a souvenir, if you can’t grasp it, you must let go at the right time. If you have a long time, you will be sad and heartbroken.
11. People have no right to ask others for anything. If others don’t give it to you, you can’t rob it. If others give it to you, it is their freedom. What you want, you can only fight for it yourself.
12. No matter what, life must continue to move forward. Sometimes hurt and failure are not necessarily a bad thing, it will make you better, and so are loneliness and loss. Everything will definitely become a good thing at the end, as long as you can go to the end.
13. In the world, we come and go, break up and get back together, cry, laugh and laugh, and taste the ups and downs of the world.
14. No matter how busy you are, don’t abandon your enthusiasm for life; no matter how bad you live, don’t lose your optimistic attitude, and don’t escape and curse it. Life is not easy, but I want to say one thing: I have done my best.
15. When we were young, we tried our best to grow up, but when we grew up, we realized that it was the most flawless childhood; when we were studying, we dreamed of working, but after work, we realized that it was the most nostalgic time; when we were single, we envied others for being together, and after marriage, we realized that the freedom to be single is also an incomparable happiness.
16. Some people are good to you because you are good to him, and some people are good to you because they understand your kindness.
17. When you are in a bad situation, remember to be patient; when you are in a good situation, remember to restrain yourself; when you are in a good situation, remember to talk about it; when you are in a frustrated life, remember to go with the flow; when you are in a bad mood, you need to cultivate; when you are in a happy mood, you need to be in a dilemma.
18. Maturity means you learn to treat yourself well and take good care of yourself. Youth is a stumbling journey, you gradually become an independent individual, rather than placing your life on everything outside by chance. No one will definitely pick you up on a rainy night. No one will understand your heart.
19. Everyone has many dreams in their life. If one of them keeps disturbing you, the rest is just actions.
20. No matter what, hard work itself is something that will make people feel at ease. If you succeed, you will enjoy everything you gain with peace of mind. Even if you fail, you can let go and move forward with peace of mind.
21. Life is short, don’t live too tiring. Life is a kind of confusion, a vague thing, whether you understand it or not, whether you can explain it clearly, whether you are confused or not, and whether you are confused or not. There are too many things that you can't stand in life. If you see clearly and understand them, you will be sad. If you are too serious in everything, you will be hard and tired.