There is a saying: " Mount Tai collapses in front of you and the color remains unchanged, Yellow River depends on the top and the face is not alarmed."
The way to deal with things is: be stable, keep your voice, and be calm.
The first thing to do is to "relax"
I read a sentence: "10% of life is composed of things that happen to a person, and the other 90% is determined by a person's reaction to what is happening."
In other words, what ultimately causes things to fail is often not the things themselves, but the emotions of a person being out of control.
When you encounter something, it will not only not solve the problem, but will also push things into a worse situation.
In a rage, he was dominated by anger, and he was the one who paid for it in the end.
When the blood is boiling, you are not very rational and your words and deeds are easy to be out of touch, and it is not suitable for others or yourself.
restrains temper, is a kind of cultivation, and also a kind of wisdom in dealing with the world.
The ancients said: "Followers are full of anger, and wise people are patient and angry."
Silly people speak with emotions when encountering things, while wise people know how to deal with emotions first and then deal with things.
Things will be round, and your mind will be bright.
It is wisdom to slow down when encountering things. Only by stabilizing your temper can you control the situation.
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When things happen, many people's first reaction is to try to convince the other party and prove that they are correct. However, the result is that the snowball of emotions is getting bigger and bigger, wasting time and energy, and the problem is still not solved.
In psychology, the communication channel has been closed since the moment of dispute.
Moreover, everyone's growth experience, education level, and cognitive width are different, and their understanding of things is naturally different. The reason you are doing is not necessarily aware of others, so arguing is just a waste of words and futile behavior.
As the saying goes, different positions are precious, less words are precious; different cognitions are wisdom; different values are different, why force them.
When you encounter someone who is unreasonable, does not understand the worldly ways, and is unreasonable, you can just laugh it off and not be honest with them, and you are not aware of them, and you are not arguing about them. It is undoubtedly a kind of remarkable wisdom.
The smarter a person is, the more he knows how to adjust his state to "silence" in time.
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The key to encountering things is "peace of mind"
When encountering things, your mind is confused, so how can you handle the problem rationally?
There is a saying that goes, panic, and panic. The more you panic you encounter, the more likely you are to say the wrong things or do the wrong things.
The more wise people encounter things, the more they are, the more they are calmer they are.
An old saying: Only by being calm can you be at peace, only by being at peace can you think, only by thinking can you get it.
Only when you are not panic can you clarify your ideas, understand the essence, and make correct decisions.
No matter what happens, you need to be calm. At any time, anxiety is our biggest enemy.
is the key to solve the problem.
As the saying goes, "In this life, if a person does not seek stability in his mind, he will fall in impetuousness."
Only by not being angry when encountering things can he act rationally; if he is not surprised by favors and disgraces, he will be able to deal with it calmly.
We cannot control the development of things, but we can adjust our mentality.
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