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Like a sentence: "What makes us mature is not the years, but experience. The maturity of plants is the evolution of state, and human maturity is the change of consciousness." The evolution of state requires continuous accumulation of nutrients, while the change of thought requires people to constantly work hard to practice.
Changes in the world, warm and cold relationships, a person’s life cannot be smooth sailing. If you want to turn the trend against the wind, you must learn these three things: hide your edge, avoid desires, and save yourself.
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As the saying goes, "The sky is mad, there will be rain, and people are mad, there will be misfortunes."
The more you are at the peak, the more likely it is to cause trouble, so mature people know how to hide their sharpness.
Wang Sengqian was the fourth generation grandson of Wang Xizhi . His calligraphy skills were the most famous and were sought after by many people, and he was not inferior to his ancestors.
Emperor Xiaowu of Song also likes to write calligraphy, but his level is average. I heard people praise Wang Sengqian's superb calligraphy skills and I was very unhappy and always wanted to destroy his majesty.
Wang Sengqian knew that Emperor Xiaowu was a petty person. If he compared the emperor, the consequences would be unimaginable.
So at a gathering of literati and scholars, Wang Sengqian deliberately wrote a mistake, and the words he wrote were also ridiculed by Emperor Xiaowu and others.
After this party, Wang Sengqian simply used a bad pen to write in public. The characters he wrote were neither the style of his ancestors nor in accordance with the rules. Emperor Xiaowu felt that this happened to be his "foil", so he no longer made things difficult for Wang Sengqian.
Wang Sengqian's family was able to live a stable life.
Li Kang said in "Theory of Fate": "Where is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it; if it piles out of the shore, the flow will rush it; if it moves higher than others, the people will criticize it."
is too excellent and does not know how to be humble and tolerant, and will inevitably be jealous and hit by others. Therefore, ancient sages would hide their sharpness and endure dormant.
People who show their strengths will fight for everything and win everything. Over time, they will be betrayal of their relatives and lose their entire life for a while.
And mature people are like mature rice ears. The more full the more they know to bow their heads. They never compete with others, nor do they want to compete with others, and they will not care about the gains and losses of the moment and place in front of them. Because their vision is higher.
The trough in life should hide your edge, learn to endure, wait for the opportunity, and soar into the sky.
Hiding the edge and keeping a clumsy is not cowardice, but a kind of wisdom in dealing with the world.
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Once, Yin Zipei prepared a sumptuous banquet at Jintai and invited him to the banquet.
King Zhuang of Chu heard that the Liaoshan Mountain could be seen south of Jintai, and the opposite Emperor's water was . On the left was Yangtze River , and on the right was Huaihe , which was a beautiful place with beautiful scenery. According to legend, people would be happy to forget the pain when they came to the place.
He felt that this place would make people lose their fighting spirit and forget their original intention, so he did not go to the banquet.
He said to Zipei : "I have shallow virtues and can't bear such happiness. I am afraid that I will indulge in this and delay the great affairs of governing the country, so I changed my original intention and decided not to go. ”
King Zhuang of Chu restrained his desires and focused all his energy on governing the country and ensuring peace. Finally, he got what he wanted and became the overlord of the Spring and Autumn Period.
Egyptian said: "Desire is the root cause of suffering people."
If people are extravagant and desperate, disaster will not be far from him. A person with unsatisfactory desires is like the that will never be satisfied, and in the end it is only himself who is exhausted.
The more mature a person is, the more he knows to quit his desires and live a low-end life.
They pay more attention to their inner richness, rather than the desire for words. They understand that the less desire, the more free and free the mind will be.
people are in a low point, and they should control their desires. The fire of hope cannot be extinguished, and the heart of greed cannot be possessed. Only with the right direction in life can you have a chance to make a comeback.
Seeing in person
Tenzi said: "I examine myself three times a day: Are you unfaithful in your plan? Do you make friends but don't believe in them? Are you not familiar with them?"
As a saint, Zengzi reflects on himself every day, and as ordinary people, we should reflect on ourselves in time.
Northern Song Prime Minister Wen Yanbo When he was a child, he was naughty and often made mistakes. His father was very strict with him. Every time he made a mistake, he would punish him severely.
But the naughty Wen Yanbo refused to change his mind. His father got sick by anger and lay on the bed, sighing. Seeing his father so angry, Wen Yanbo began to regret what he did.
In order to reform himself, he prepared two jars. If you do something useful every day, put a red bean in one jar; if you do something unhelpful, put a black bean in another jar.
He checks the number of beans in each jar every day, reflecting on what he did right and what he did wrong, and how to avoid it in the future.
After becoming an official, Wen Yanbo also used this method to reflect on himself every day. He served as an official for fifty years, assisted in the government affairs, quelled unjustly injustice, and thought about the people everywhere. It is deeply loved by the people.
A scholar from the Qing Dynasty, Shen Juyun, said in "Xiyan Zuiyu": "Just just reflect on yourself, there is nothing that cannot be done in the world."
If you want to avoid making mistakes, you can only keep reflecting on yourself and adjusting your direction in time, so that your life will not go astray.
People who don’t know how to reflect are either too self-righteous and think that they are doing things right and cannot be questioned by others. Or you just live a confused life, no matter whether it is right or wrong, you will go all the way to the dark.
And their results are the same, that is, they will be defeated on the battlefield of life.
You should always reflect on yourself, carry forward the good and abandon the bad. Only in this way can we check for shortcomings and fill in gaps, make ourselves more mature and perfect, and make sufficient preparations for our comeback.
likes a proverb: "Everything has a bitter taste before it matures."
Yes, life is a process of bitterness first and sweetness later. To mature, one has to pay the price, and this price is worth it.
Life is ups and downs, and it is not scary to be at a low point. What is scary is losing one's own confidence.
Only by knowing how to hide the edge can you accumulate energy. If you don’t fly, you will soar into the sky.
Only by knowing how to abstain from desire can you go into battle lightly and create a better tomorrow.
Only by knowing how to save yourself can you become more perfect.
May everyone have a wonderful life.
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