Picture A person without rules, just like a person who is not trustworthy, is both pitiful and shameful. The manifestation of not following the rules is to act as you wish and act recklessly. Never care about the rules and good customs, but do whatever you want. There is no awe i

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A person without rules, just like a person who is not trustworthy, is both pitiful and shameful. The manifestation of not following the rules is to act as you wish and act recklessly. Never care about the rules and good customs, but do whatever you want. There is no awe in your heart.

Those who plant trees must cultivate their roots, and those who plant virtue must cultivate their hearts. The daily teachings of the teacher can change a lively, active, stubborn and naughty child, so that he can understand the importance of respecting teachers and respecting elders and cherishing time and saving, and study hard in his studies and life. Even the stupid and ignorant child can gradually get rid of ignorance and become wise and mature after the guidance of wise teachers.

Following rules and understanding rules is largely due to the inspiration and influence of the family. Jade cannot be made into a weapon without carving. People don’t learn, they don’t know. When a person is born, it is like a piece of white paper. Later, the color and shape of the white paper are covered with, which is closely related to parents, schools, societies, and society. After all the renderings, some papers become exquisite works of art, while others are painted beyond recognition.

What are the so-called rules? In fact, rules in a broad sense refer to universal rules, customs, laws, and laws. For example, when eating, elders can first use chopsticks before they can start picking up food. When going out in the morning and evening, they should actively inform their family where they are going, and voluntarily queue up when checking out shopping, and stop at the red light when crossing the road. If an adult does not understand these principles when he reaches 18 years old, he is a person who lacks common sense and ignores the convention.

Regardless of men, women, young and old, abide by the rules and be trustworthy. This is a moral tradition that has been passed down from ancient times to the present. Xunzi said in "Encouraging Learning": "The wood is straight in the rope, and the wheel is straight, and the curve is straight. Even if there are dry and violent, it is not upright, so it is just a swaying. Therefore, when the wood is straight, it is straight, and the metal is sharpened, it is profitable. A gentleman is knowledgeable and meticulous every day, and then he knows that he is clear and does not make mistakes." From this we can see the important role played by ropes and sharpening.

In addition, Mencius pointed out in "If you don't follow rules, cannot be square or circle ": "Without rules, you cannot be square or circle." The so-called "rules" and "rules" were originally tools for drawing circles and measuring the length or angle of straight lines, but later extended to the principles and laws for doing things. When judging whether a person knows etiquette and understands reason, people often use the term "knowing the rules".

With the development and changes of the times, the connotation and extension of the word rules have been extended. In study, it is manifested as hard study and humbly seeking advice; in life, it is manifested as strict self-discipline and lenient to others; in work, it is manifested as loving the job, dedication, honesty and friendly. Only by dealing with people according to specific requirements in different environments can we not be determined or make big mistakes.

Standing at thirty, not confused at forty, knowing the destiny at fifty, being obedient at sixty, and following your heart at seventy, not exceeding the rules. Even old people should do whatever they want under the conditions of abiding by the rules and regulations. In other words, people can gain the greatest degree of freedom within the legal and moral scope.

freedom is very valuable, it often stands opposite the rules. If you want to gain absolute freedom, you will definitely break the rules and regulations and cause great disasters to yourself. Often, people will suddenly realize the value of freedom after committing evil and being imprisoned. However, it was usually too late to regret it at that time, and it was too late to think about obeying the laws and regulations and raising morality. Some people lose their lives and spend their money because they ignore the rules. Isn’t this a pity? If you understand the importance of rules as soon as possible and practice them all the time, such a tragedy would not have happened.

Understand the past without advice, and know the future can be pursued. The past has passed quickly and cannot be returned, and the days ahead have not yet come. If you can correct mistakes, there is no greater good. Knowing that you have made a mistake is the first step to correct your mistake. Being able to learn useful lessons from mistakes and make up your mind to never make the same mistakes again can transform from a person who acts presumptuously to a person who speaks and acts with caution.In time, those wrong ideas will be clear, and actions of upright and clear mind will be consolidated. Ordinary people who seemed to be the same as everyone else will also have new opportunities to create a wonderful life.

Understand in a quiet place, and practice in things. No one knows everything and knows everything at birth. Everyone grows up and becomes successful through a little bit of learning. So, don’t laugh at anyone, don’t hit anyone, don’t see anyone clearly, you think that the poor and down-and-out ordinary people today are likely to become the head of state that will make great achievements in the future. When you meet someone who asks you for advice, learn etiquette, and ask questions, you might as well patiently help and enlighten them, just treat it as accumulating virtue and doing good deeds, and also contribute your own strength to the world full of light and warmth!

As the saying goes, "Sit in meditation and always think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others' mistakes in chatting." Only by becoming a person who understands the rules and etiquette first can you be qualified to help and educate others. Carrying out strict self-examination and reflection will allow us to correct many shortcomings and bad habits and grow into a better self.