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Cleaning up my phone today, I found a text message on my phone. This was sent to me by a good friend more than two months ago: When you don’t dwell on your past, be content with your present and be optimistic about your future. When you understand that success will not make you, failure will not make you. When failure will not knock you down and mediocrity will not annihilate you, you will stand at the highest point; when you have practiced enough to overcome temporary unhappiness, value your own responsibilities rather than power, care about the misfortunes of others and focus on saving and comforting When you are standing at the highest point of your spirit; when you look back with a clear heart, look forward with hope, look down with a generous heart, and look up with a calm heart, you stand At the highest point of the soul.
Yes, with a clear and optimistic heart, we stand at the highest point of the soul.
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In this complicated world, we may not have such feelings for a long time in order to survive and idealize in this world. When a person's soul is not satisfied with the ordinary, but is confused, irritable, depressed, and sinking in the world, the sky of the soul may have been barren, and the inner chamber of the spirit may have become rusty.
Even though life is occasionally a little bumpy, and the world is occasionally a little cold, this is real life, and there is nothing we can’t endure. This is just "some of us". Compared with "other people in society", these so-called bumpy and cold days are more difficult. Not worth mentioning. If we feel that our mood is so bad and we are about to collapse and cannot hold on anymore, we can go for a walk and see those people who are really running and looking forward to life and to live in the wind and rain.
They can be migrant workers in the city, ordinary people, or our parents.
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I remember that this summer is already the season of winter. Since the rain in Beijing this year is more abundant than in previous years, several top-floor residents reported that the roofs were somewhat wet, so the community carried out unified maintenance and repairs on the roofs and exterior walls of the buildings. Naturally, it is these city workers who complete the work. They are both the builders and beauticians of the city, but they are not the enjoyers of urban life. They spend their time on the rough and dark asphalt on the roof, on the mottled walls of the building and the paint that continues to exude a pungent smell. Day after day, year after year, they only In order to earn that little money to support my family, I cannot go back to my hometown. Our buildings have become warm and beautiful because of them, but their lives are dimmed by asphalt and paint; many of us may have accumulated thick fat in our bodies due to excessive nutrition and need to be drained. They work hard to lose fat, but their spines are bent day by day under the burden of life, but they have no complaints. Their joints are thick, and their veins (blood vessels) protrude, like green dragons bending and flexing on their limbs; they live in plain clothes and eat rough food, and are scattered in inconspicuous corners of the city like grass and grass, walking at the bottom of life, and we rub shoulders with them Walking shoulder to shoulder, but not When people look at them, no one will think of them on a cold night; we live a comfortable life, but we are often full of complaints. They repaired the broken parts of our lives and left quietly without leaving their names. We I never thought of being grateful.
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reminded me of the novel "Alive" by Yu Hua that I had recently read. The novel describes a person's ability to endure suffering and his optimistic attitude towards the world.
Yu Hua said in his preface: "The writing process made me understand that people live for themselves, not for anything other than living."
The protagonist Fugui has experienced his own ups and downs in his life, and has experienced People around him were lost and found and eventually left him one by one. If the most painful thing in the world is to be separated from a loved one in life or death, then Fugui has experienced such pain five times. Eventually, when none of his relatives were left, he became an old man.
Such was his fate, it arranged for him to live alone, but made him endure pain and loneliness. Faced with this kind of life, Fugui learned to go on calmly. He bought an equally old cow to accompany him. When he lost all his family property, he began to experience another life. This life was very different from his original life, but he soon He adapted to this gap, gained a correct understanding of his current situation, and began to study farming diligently, just to survive.
Therefore, when a person can still live optimistically after experiencing all kinds of hardships in life, then he is an extraordinary hero, which allows him to bear the blows that come one after another and have the courage to fight against setbacks. There is no doubt that Fugui is such a person.
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Let’s take a look at our parents. They may come from rural areas, their faces tanned by the sun due to years of working in the fields, their faces wrinkled due to exposure to wind, frost, snow and rain, their faces facing the loess and their backs turned to the sky, busy sowing, plowing, fertilizing, irrigating and harvesting. His waist and hands are calloused from years of hard work. They can't say any profound truth, and they rarely even speak. They just work silently for their family and for us, their children. When we grow up and want to go to a distant place, they nag and give us countless instructions to see us off, and they keep watching us far away; when we are tired and tired, they will always be our strong arms and give us strength. With their support and encouragement, they will always be our warm haven and give us warm comfort and care. This is the love of great parents - a love that makes us burst into tears, a love that is selfless, unrequited, and without complaints. The only thing our parents want is for us to be healthy and live a good life. They don’t want us to be rich, but they want us to have a smooth and stable life.
So don’t always complain about unfair fate or that life is not easy. What's more, in real life, there are always more joys than worries, more happiness than pains, more hopes than disappointments, and more warmth than coldness.
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isn’t it? Compared with them, we have a stable job, a stable income, food to eat, clothes to wear, a house to live in, medical treatment for diseases, medicines available, the sun and rain to enjoy every day, and the enjoyment of nature. As the seasons change, we have the care of colleagues and friends, the care of loved ones and parents. If you think about it this way, what worries and sorrows are there? Therefore, whether you feel happy and satisfied is not external, but in your heart. It does not depend on whether you are rich in material things, but whether you are rich in spirit.
When we have a grateful heart and a contented heart; when we read a book seriously under the lamp, or focus on our work, hobbies, and interests, our hearts will be peaceful, happy, and solid. Yes, peacefully, we will realize at this moment that we have returned to ourselves from the hustle and bustle of the city, and we will also be glad for ourselves that we have not strayed far away from our beliefs and love.
Therefore, no matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks you encounter, you must live well; no matter what kind of day it is, whether it is cloudy or sunny, good or bad, keep the sky in your heart clear and keep the poetic feelings in your heart. , live up to the solemn beliefs in the heart, have the optimism to enter the world calmly, and leave the world in peace, such days will be rich, distant and happy every day.
As for the past, let it go. Don’t always think about the good old days, let alone be brooding about the past. Let the past turn over and bid farewell to the past that cannot be returned. Like the master Fugui, adapt to the new lifestyle of your own. Don’t dwell on the past, don’t worry about the present, don’t be afraid of the future, settle yourself, work hard silently, and write A new chapter in life.
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