To others
Maybe someone once suggested you where you can improve - for example, react faster, don't take everything so seriously, deal with others more, read more books; maybe they will also hint you in a subtle way, it is best to behave Be more outgoing and not just do whatever you feel comfortable with.
Whenever this happens, you may identify yourself more firmly, and maybe even muster up the courage to stick to your principles and accept your true self.
You will find that there are many people in the world who feel the same way as you. It's like finding a foothold and a refuge in the midst of chaos. There, you can be yourself, stay away from pressure, and ignore other people's well-intentioned suggestions to "make changes".
Interestingly, this inner peace allows us to reserve energy and think about whether we can take on certain challenges. When others stop challenging us, we want to challenge ourselves instead.
A Visitor’s Story
For years, my family and my husband tried to convince me that I shouldn’t dwell on my shortcomings—but their advice made no sense to me, and I resented it. - They want to change me.
Many of the problems I encountered were explained when I realized that I was an introvert. I asked my friends and family to read some books about introversion, and they finally understood and could understand me. My negative thoughts about myself disappeared.
I have a new understanding - "I am normal and don't need to change".
Several years later, I suddenly wondered if I could make a change. I hope to further integrate into the workplace and have more interactions with colleagues. Inspired by this, I immersed myself in many approaches, including alternative therapies and psychotherapy. I can’t explain what worked, but I get along better with my colleagues now.
No one will make corresponding changes because of what others think is good.
The process of change is difficult and can cause anxiety. Because you have to think deeply about what will happen if you change.
If you want to make changes, you have to fully mobilize your enthusiasm and ensure that you are full of energy.
Understanding personality types
Being aware that you belong to a certain personality type will provide you with the energy reserves you need.
You can make a huge leap from the " relax and accept your true self" stage to the " work hard to improve yourself" stage and benefit a lot from it.
Understanding your personality type can give you inner peace, but it’s best not to turn it into permanent rest or stagnation.
Every age and every life situation brings new opportunities and challenges, which require you to deeply understand your inner feelings and learn to deal with your own struggles in new ways. If every time you encounter an obstacle, you think, “I’m encountering an obstacle because I’m highly sensitive or introverted, so I have to learn to accept it,” you may miss the opportunity to grow.
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Nothing in the world remains static, and people continue to grow throughout their lives. Problems that cannot be solved at a certain age may be solved in the next stage of life.
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