Lying in bed early that morning, I suddenly had this idea in my mind: Ten years can change a person a lot. Just thinking about the changes in the past year since entering college, in fact, the changes in one year have already been I used to be a very confident person, but after I

Lying in bed early that morning, an idea suddenly came to my mind: Ten years can change a person a lot. Just looking back at the changes in the past year since entering college, in fact, the changes in one year are just as big. Already big

I used to be a I am a very confident person, but after I went to college, I deeply realized my insignificance among the crowd. I was also afraid that I would always be in this state, and I had a deep sense of anxiety in my heart.

Even though I knew that I was a person with a rich inner world. people, but only I know that. Compared with my peers, even though I have gone to college, I still get asked if I am a junior high school student because of my childish and juvenile temperament. In addition, I don’t know how to put on makeup, and I don’t know much about dressing. Compared with the trendy boys and girls in school, it is obvious that someone with an external image like me is in college. The social scene here seemed very inconspicuous. Even if I joined the school's social circle, few people came up to me. This made me, who was already a little socially anxious, more sensitive.

I began to think repeatedly: What should I do? excellent? I will also encourage myself in my heart: You are very good. You can take pictures and write articles. You have your own unique insights and rich emotional world. But it turns out that I may not be as good as I thought. If I am really good, why can no one recognize me from the crowd? Maybe excellence is just a feeling

I have also thought about: How can I radiate the richness of my heart from the inside out so that people outside can receive my signal? Maybe I'm really good, but I'm just not confident enough, or there's no one who supports me, allowing me to show my best and most confident self in social situations, but it doesn't matter, the outside world can't give me the me. Can be self-sufficient

In fact, let alone ten years, one year can make a person change a lot. During the winter vacation of my freshman year, I began to try to change myself. If it were before, I would definitely not care about these external images, but now I realize its importance. I need to gain self-confidence through external changes

I first asked the hairstylist to help me design a hairstyle that looked more murderous. The hairstylist suggested that I cut my hair short and diagonally parted. That time, I saw my intellectual side. , pounce on Bai Applying fair matte makeup, applying a touch of red lips, putting on a retro suit, and walking on the bustling street, I can feel that my aura has suddenly improved by several levels, and my self-confidence has also improved a lot. Even when I pass by the mirror in a shopping mall, I have to look back. I am very happy with myself. The counterattack was successful

When I looked in the mirror and saw that I was in good condition, my inner emotions began to be mobilized, so my condition was always very good throughout the day. At that moment, I felt that I had more enthusiasm to face life and Social

After a week, I didn’t really like the short side-parted hair at that time, so I went to the hair salon again and asked the stylist to cut me a more unique wolf tail mullet. That time, I saw myself doing it After changing my hairstyle, I felt that I had found my own style. I began to pursue neutral style outfits, paired with artistic black-rimmed glasses. Those bold attempts again and again made me Found a better self

Sometimes I encounter an intellectual sister whom I like very much on a strange platform. I would especially like to know about her past, so I scroll down through her works until I turn to the works from a year ago. I find that that sister is not actually the same person. start As glamorous as they are, everyone transforms slowly, including those urban sisters walking on the bustling streets. I hope that in ten years I will be as mentally independent and financially prosperous as them, and live the life I want.

you are only 20 Years old, you still have a lot of time to improve yourself. There is still a long way to go in life.

You see, you can change so much in one year. You will definitely be better in ten years. It’s what you expected