Zhang Ruoyun: My father, Zhang Jian, didn't attend my wedding, and he made me pay 140 million liquidated damages

In the early morning of December 6, 2019, Zhang Ruoyun , who was tossing and turning, wrote a short article on the Internet.

Zhang Ruoyun said in his article that there is always an idea in his heart, when he grows up and has his own home and his own world, he will invite that person to come to his home.

In the cold winter and twelfth lunar month, there is snow outside, and the house is warm. The family is cooking hot pot by the window, talking about the hardships of the outside world and the steamy life.

Listen to that person tell the story of the ups and downs of his life, feel the wind and snow he has experienced, and the wine is not intoxicating.

The person who can match the person in Zhang Ruoyun's article is Zhang Ruoyun's father Zhang Jian. Looking at the above words, it is an enviable father and son's warm and touching family. Unfortunately, Zhang Ruoyun said at the end of the article, "Unfortunately you are not worthy", everything is Everything is a dream.

After Zhang Ruoyun posted a short article, he deleted it in seconds. This incident was still on the hot search list of the year.

What did Zhang Jian do to his son?

Why did Zhang Ruoyun change from a huge expectation for his father to a heart-wrenching disappointment?


In 1988, Zhang Ruoyun was originally born in an enviable family in Beijing, but because of his father Zhang Jian, Zhang Ruoyun's birth became a tragedy.

In 1961, Zhang Jian was born into an intellectual family. Because he was the only child in the family, he was loved by his parents since he was a child. In addition, he was very good at his own brain. Can't be added.

After graduating from university, Zhang Jian did not inherit his father's business, but went into business in the sea in accordance with the trend of the times. He first started business in a pharmaceutical factory in Shenzhen, and later moved to Shanghai to engage in real estate development.

Seeing his son's successful career, Zhang Ruoyun's grandparents began to urge for a grandson. In order to satisfy the second elder's wish, Zhang Jian and Zhang Ruoyun's mother Huang Ming got together. They got married in 1987 and gave birth the following year. His son Zhang Ruoyun.

Getting married and having children was regarded by Zhang Jian as fulfilling his parents' wishes, so being a husband and a father did not increase his sense of responsibility. This also paved the way for him to abandon his wife and children later.

In 1993, actress Liu Bei made a big hit with "Enjoyment". In the play, she dressed in a cheongsam and walked like a willow in the wind. The goddess that men dream of, Zhang Jian is no exception.

It just so happened that " Kyoto Chronicle" started shooting, Zhang Jian met Liu Bei by chance, and was hooked by Liu Bei. When he came together with Liu Bei, he didn't care to go home and divorce Huang Ming.

Huang Ming agreed to divorce in a fit of rage, she wanted nothing but Zhang Ruoyun, but at this time, Zhang Jian refused to release Zhang Ruoyun's custody. Although he was fascinated, he still remembered that he married at the beginning to give hugs to his parents. Sun Tzu's, so no matter what, Huang Ming will not let Zhang Ruoyun take away.

Compared with Zhang Jian's strong strength at the time, Huang Ming wanted to snatch custody from him, which was tantamount to hitting a stone with an egg. In the end, Zhang Ruoyun followed Zhang Jian, but Zhang Jian was unwilling to bring this small oil bottle and hindered himself from pursuing Liu. Bei, just leave Zhang Ruoyun to his parents to support him.

There is no father and no mother to accompany him. Zhang Ruoyun is very insecure at a young age. He feels that he is different from his friends. Everyone has parents and he does not, and people are becoming more and more Lonely.

After the divorce, Huang Ming came to visit Zhang Ruoyun. Seeing her son in this state, she was heartbroken.She was already defeated in the head-on competition for custody of her son, so she thought that she would simply do nothing and escape to live abroad with Zhang Ruoyun.

Just when Huang Ming took Zhang Ruoyun to the hotel next to the airport and was about to board the plane to cross the ocean, Zhang Ruoyun's grandmother realized that something was wrong, and brought a large number of relatives here, and stopped Huang Ming at the critical moment. He snatched Zhang Ruoyun back again.

When Huang Ming and Zhang Ruoyun's grandma were madly fighting for Zhang Ruoyun, Zhang Jian was too busy to pursue Liu Bei. As Zhang Jian's divorce was finalized, Liu Bei also agreed to be with Zhang Jian. Jian is immersed in his own happy love, where does he have the mind to take care of his son.

In 1994, with perseverance, Zhang Jian finally married Liu Bei and went home. Zhang Jian was so busy with his little wife that he had no time to care about his son Zhang Ruoyun.

Every time Zhang Ruoyun held a parent-teacher meeting, his grandmother would attend. Once Zhang Ruoyun wanted his father Zhang Jian to come, Zhang Jian clearly agreed to his son, but when the parent-teacher meeting ended, Zhang Ruoyun did not wait for his father to come.

Some people say: "Children's world is very small. No matter how violent their parents are, parents are still the only source of love and comfort for them."

It is a pity that Zhang Jian, an incompetent father, has Zhang Ruoyun's growth has not squeezed out a trace of love and comfort.


Without the company of his parents, the only source of light for Zhang Ruoyun's childhood was his grandparents.

Zhang Ruoyun's grandfather was an accomplished geologist. There used to be a formula named after him. Zhang Ruoyun's name was also given by his grandfather. I hope he will flourish like a newborn sun.

In fact, Zhang Ruoyun's entire elementary and junior high school life was the darkness before dawn, the feeling of inferiority without the company of his parents, plus he is a child with a particularly rich imagination, and his personality is not gregarious with his peers.Zhang Ruoyun became more and more withdrawn.

When he was young, a friend asked him why he didn't play with everyone. Zhang Ruoyun didn't know how to answer. The friends understand that this pain has haunted him for a long time.

On the other side, Zhang Jian, who completely dumped his son to his parents, did not live happily for two days after marriage.

Although Zhang Jian loves Liu Bei very much, he has been remembering this little wife's habit for many years. He has to drink a glass of honey water before going to bed. At home, Zhang Jian will arrange for Liu Bei every day before going to bed. It's a pity On the whole, Zhang Jian kept his words and deeds less, and would not use sweet words to coax Liu Bei.

In 2002, when Liu Bei starred in " Military Secrets", he had frequent contact with director Zhang Li, and gradually the relationship continued from the set to "The Grove", and gave Zhang Jian a small green hat , Zhang Jian finally tasted the taste of betrayal, and soon divorced Liu Bei, and Liu Bei soon succeeded in negotiating with Zhang Li.

At this time, 14-year-old Zhang Ruoyun was facing the high school entrance examination. He thought that his father would put more energy on him after the divorce, but his expectations were again shattered, and his father, who had recovered his freedom, began to spread more The network, busy day and night for more beauties.

Zhang Ruoyun even gradually moved himself closer to being a bad boy in order to attract the attention of his father. He got tattoos, got lip studs , wore ripped jeans, and was covered with jingling chains all over his body, but unfortunately the chains collided again. Zhang Jian turned a deaf ear.

The moment that Zhang Jian can remember this son is when he needs it.

In 2004, Zhang Jian, who turned into a director, was filming "The Oath of the Sea" and found that the male protagonist Ouyang Zheng lacked actors in his teenage scenes. At this time, he finally remembered that he had a 16-year-old eldest son who was quite handsome. He hurried to school to help Zhang Ruoyun take leave to film.

Zhang Ruoyun doesn't care why his father thinks of him,As long as my father can still remember his existence, he is very happy, and immediately followed his father to the crew with a bright face. This also accidentally became Zhang Ruoyun's debut work, and Zhang Ruoyun's tentacles of life began to penetrate into the entertainment industry.

In 2007, Zhang Li, who had married Liu Bei, was photographed by the media and Xiao Song Jia holding toilet paper and daily necessities in the same community, and Zhang Jian's hat was changed to Liu Bei's head.

After the affair between Zhang Li and Xiao Song Jia was exposed, Liu Bei quickly divorced Zhang Li, and brought his newborn son back to find Zhang Jian. Zhang Jian disregarded his previous suspicions and successfully remarried Liu Bei, leaving his own He didn't support his son, so he went to help Zhang Li raise his son, and re-established a family of three with Liu Bei and his stepson.


If I really want to pick what Zhang Jian did before his son became an adult, it should be a guide to Zhang Ruoyun's development direction.

In 2007, when it was time for the college entrance examination, Zhang Ruoyun had always liked to watch movies. Zhang Ruoyun developed a strong interest in making movies and was preparing to apply for the director class for the college entrance examination.

Zhang Jian told Zhang Ruoyun based on his experience as a director for many years, that his conditions are more suitable for the acting department, and being an actor is more conducive to giving full play to his advantages.

Zhang Ruoyun followed his father's advice and applied for the performance major of Beijing Film Academy , and became a student of the same class as Tan Songyun .

After Zhang Ruoyun joined Beiying, Zhang Jian, as a director, never thought of supporting his son.

In fact, many students of Beiying will be filming during college. After all, the actor industry still needs to be familiar with the audience, but Zhang Jian never thought of letting Zhang Ruoyun come to his dramas to temper it, and he never recommended it. Zhang Ruoyun went to other crews.

After graduating in 2009, he was tanned when he returned from his graduation trip. Except for his contact and running two tricks, he failed to pass any interviews with the crew.Forced to do nothing, Zhang Ruoyun had to put down his dignity and turn to his father for help.

Zhang Jian was planning to shoot "Snow Leopard" at that time, so he arranged for Zhang Ruoyun to be the younger brother of the male lead. It is strange to say that Zhang Jian's previous TV series was unknown, but "Snow Leopard" was a great success. Not only did the article playing the male lead become more famous, Zhang Ruoyun also opened up the audience because of this drama.

After Zhang Jian saw the fire of "Snow Leopard", he arranged a companion piece " Black Fox". Originally, Zhang Ruoyun played the second male role in this TV series, and the first male one has someone else, but after two months of filming , The male one really can't support the role, and seeing that he is facing a serious overdue, Zhang Jian has to temporarily pull his own son to save the scene.

Although Zhang Jian finally gave his son the lead role in "Black Fox", he never felt sorry for his son during the filming.

Zhang Ruoyun said in an interview that in the process of filming "Black Fox", he was a newcomer with no pay and no time limit.

The most serious is that Zhang Ruoyun caught a cold on the second day of the Lunar New Year. He had to start work after the cold, and finally developed pneumonia. Even if it was pneumonia, he still couldn't take vacations to treat the disease. After the high fever was suppressed, I went to the studio to film, and at 12 o'clock in the evening, the high fever was reset, and the person was already unconscious, so he went to the infusion.

After a week of tossing and turning like this, Zhang Ruoyun couldn't take it anymore, and finally he had to be sent to the hospital.

"Black Fox" took a full 10 months to shoot. All the actors on the crew ran out. The cameraman, lighting, coordinator, and producer were all replaced, and 4 directors were replaced. Only Zhang Ruoyun survived to the end.

On the day of the filming, Zhang Ruoyun couldn't help but burst into tears when he saw the fireworks in Beijing's high-rise buildings again.

People who have a son in their hearts, even if they want to help their son succeed,No one really treats his own son as an animal.

In 2011, after the broadcast of "Black Fox", the audience evaluation was not bad, Zhang Jian started to film "New Snow Leopard" again, let Zhang Ruoyun play Zhou Weiguo , Zhang Ruoyun was very reluctant, after all the article has been made In that case, it would be difficult for a new actor to equalize, let alone surpass. In the end, Zhang Ruoyun reluctantly accepted it because of his father.

But after the show ended, Zhang Ruoyun was afraid that he would keep filming like this, and that he would not be able to expand his acting career. In addition, there were already a lot of bad voices at that time, saying that he was a "father's family", so Zhang Ruoyun raised a three-pointer with his father. year agreement.

The father and son made an appointment that within three years Zhang Ruoyun would not shoot any of Zhang Jian's TV dramas. It was this decision that allowed Zhang Ruoyun to grow exponentially and quickly become popular.


Zhang Ruoyun didn't go well in the beginning, and he almost ran out of ammunition. Can't send it.

Fortunately, there is no such thing as a perfect road. In 2014, Zhang Ruoyun performed a web drama "Wuxin Mage", and made a small fire with the black-bellied and infatuated warlord Zhang Xianzong . After

, "Nine Sky City", "Sparrow", " Forensic Qin Ming" made Zhang Ruoyun famous, until 2019, Zhang Ruoyun played Fan in the large-scale costume drama " Celebrating More Than Years" The corner of leisure is completely popular all over the country, and ranks among the top actors.

This year, Zhang Ruoyun and his long-term girlfriend Tang Yixin had a grand wedding in Ireland .

Unfortunately, on the day of the big wedding, Zhang Jian not only did not attend his son's wedding, but also severely blocked Zhang Ruoyun. Zhang Ruoyun's 60 million property was frozen, and he was sued by Huace Pictures. The net mocked Tang Yixin, saying that she married a pseudo-rich.

It turns out that in 2016, Zhang Ruoyun became famous with "Sparrow", but Zhang Jian was in deep debt crisis because of the filming of " Huo Qubing", thinking that his son's commercial value has become prominent, Zhang Jian simply I packaged my son's play contract and sold it to Huace for 200 million yuan.

According to the contract between Zhang Jian and Hua Ce, Hua Ce paid Zhang Jian 150 million in the early stage. Zhang Ruoyun will star in four TV dramas under the name of Hua Ce from April 1, 2017 to September 30, 2019. Huace settles the final payment.

After signing the contract, Hua Ce began to contact Zhang Ruoyun for filming. Zhang Ruoyun did not know about it, so Zhang Ruoyun did not accept any of the scripts that Hua Ce gave.

In 2019, Hua Ce was forced to have no choice but to take Zhang Jian and Zhang Ruoyun and his son to court. The assets of Zhang Ruoyun and Zhang Jian were frozen.

On June 18, 2020, Zhang Ruoyun declared through the Internet that "I have never signed a contract, and I have never received money." Zhang Jian immediately explained that "authorized by Zhang Ruoyun's WeChat", he was determined to pit his own son to the end, forcing Zhang Ruoyun to stop. Do not bring the biological father Zhang Jian and Hua Ce to court together.

When he met such a father who used his strength to cheat his son, how unwilling, wronged, angry and helpless Zhang Ruoyun's life was, only he knew, but even with so many hardships in his life, he did not imitate that irresponsible father .

He didn't learn about his father's promiscuity. He and Tang Yixin had been in a clean relationship for 9 years and got married. They went to Ireland, where divorce is not allowed in the world, for a wedding.

A father's indifference to his children he does not learn,Zhang Yixin came back after giving birth, and said in the show that after the child was born, it was Zhang Ruoyun who took care of her daughter for 24 hours. What made Zhang Ruoyun most proud was that he changed her daughter's first diaper.

Zhang Ruoyun is conscientious in his career and cherished in his family. He has completely become the opposite of his father Zhang Jian. , who was abused by his biological father, has become a benchmark for men and a reference for women to marry. mark.

Some time ago, " Swordsman in the Snow " starring Zhang Ruoyun broke 5 billion views.

It is said that this year's CCTV Spring Festival Gala, Zhang Ruoyun will also meet with you as the host .

If a person's heart is toward the light, there is divine help.

There is a line in "Initial D": "There is only one kind of success in this world, and that is to be able to spend this life the way you like." Even if the family of origin has many scars, successful people can still choose to hold themselves back The knife in his hand, do not let it continue to hurt innocents.

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[Text|Xiaohe]

[Editor|Xixi]

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