Once we say goodbye, there will be no return date. Grandma sleeps forever, and we will miss her often.
Only after personal experience can I understand that when a loved one dies, the most painful thing is the moment when she passes away. The most painful thing is the endless suffering and yearning in every moment, every day, and every year after that.
Grandma is gone, and Aunt Jiu, who has been with her for more than ten years, is devastated.
As soon as the lid of the pot was lifted after each meal, it was time to deliver food to grandma. Every time, she had to choose delicious and soft food. She cried bitterly when she saw the food that could no longer be delivered.
Every time I go to the kitchen and see the rice cooker that has been used for several years by my grandma, I can’t help but burst into tears.
It is a stainless steel silver rice cooker with several layers. The top layer is for rice, the middle layer is for vegetables, and the bottom layer is for soup. After tightening the lid, it was still steaming hot when it was delivered to grandma's bed, but it was useless now. It had not played a role for several days. It stayed lonely and silently in a daze, as if it was missing grandma.
As soon as she left the house, she didn't dare to look west. It was a small road, which was the direction to see her grandma. She had to walk several times a day, but she couldn't help but look back and saw that the relative who made her worry about her was gone, and she couldn't help crying silently.
I shed all my tears, the paper became ashes, and I was so sad that I couldn’t draw.
You, my male sister, have served my grandma for several years, carrying water and meals, buying medicine and delivering water, before and after bed, taking care of everything, being considerate and considerate, and being more filial than her children.
It has become her habit to serve her grandma. Three meals a day take up more than half of her day. She also has to help her buy things and deal with some chores. Every day is fulfilling and busy.
Now that all this time is free, she feels empty and at a loss. Even her 5-year-old son reminded her: You should boil water for your wife, why don't you bring food to her... It made her burst into tears
My mother bought a piece of tiramisu online at some point, and suddenly saw it today, took it out and ate a small piece. It was soft and sweet, melted in the mouth, and tasted great, just right for the elderly. At this time, my mother couldn't help but think of my grandma and shed tears while eating.
If it were normal, my mother would be pleasantly surprised by this discovery and would immediately buy a few pieces for grandma. Grandma must especially like to eat it and praise it while eating, with an extremely happy expression on her face. But now I will never see it. I can only imagine it. It is true that the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to be filial but does not wait for his relatives. How can it not make people sad!
At that moment, time was gone and nowhere to be found. At that moment, Lone Ying's clothes were wet with tears.
My child, I hope that when grandma bids farewell to this world, she also bids farewell to aging, disease and pain, and gains new life and eternal life in another world.
We who live now must know that life is only once, how precious it is; if we live to 83 years old, our life will last only 30,000 days, how short it is.
As long as we live for one day, we should carefully understand the process of life. When we work hard for our ideals, we should not forget to appreciate the scenery on the roadside and feel the beauty of life; when we work selflessly for our career, we should also not forget to spend more time with our loved ones and enjoy the fun of family affection.
Where are the people who came with me to look at the moon? The scenery is vaguely like last year - Postscript.
