Human beings are social animals, and social interaction is a theme that can never be avoided. So how do you balance the relationship between yourself and others in life? I think writer sanmao gave a good answer.
In my life, I am the protagonist.
For the lives of others, we are at best a hint, an encouragement and inspiration, and a sincere care. These attitudes may enrich the lives of others, but they are unlikely to develop into taking care of other people's lives.
We cannot afford to live entirely for another life—even if others grant us the right.
It is a kind of courage to insist on what you should do. It is another kind of courage to never do things that your conscience does not allow.
Don't be afraid to reject others if your reasons are valid.
When a person makes a request, he has basically prepared two answers in his heart. Therefore, any answer given to others is expected.
Forgiving others' mistakes is not necessarily a virtue. Ignoring one's own mistakes is a kind of irresponsible release.
Excessive self-interest is selfishness.
completely abandoned me and abused a living being - myself.
We are born, grow up, enter middle age, slowly age, and live a long and short life; we may have been to many places and met many people, but these are all passers-by in our own lives, and we are the absolute protagonists.
Therefore, we must learn to love ourselves and be kind to ourselves; find our own direction in life and strive for it; be a good person and help others within our ability.
Finally, we are all unique beings in the world. Only by learning to love ourselves can we love others; not disturbing other people's lives is also a sign of respect for others.
