I know that after the tide
there will definitely be a rise - the inscription "The Sea of Life"
2022 has only the last 4 days. Every year at the end of the year, I will think of the flag I set for myself at the beginning of the year.
I, after all, I still couldn’t do what I said. Year after year, I still lost to myself. This sounds really sad. There are still many things that
wants to do that have not yet been realized.
still remembers at the beginning of the year, a friend said that her wish this year was to "survive". I knew what she meant. The three years of epidemic have not been easy for everyone. Being able to be self-sufficient, safe, and healthy is already pretty good.
Maybe sometimes you will feel happy if you don’t have too many expectations for life. Anything that exceeds expectations is considered lucky and unexpected, and people tend to be happier.
I write down the flag year after year, hoping that one day I can really do it. Instead of lying to yourself all the time. Because ultimately, we are all responsible for what we do.
summarized the reasons why the flag was not realized:
1 The goal was too conceptual and not concrete
2 Lack of motivation to persist
3 It was too easy to give up
4 Not self-disciplined enough
5 There was no definite plan for implementation
6 Too optimistic when setting goals and not reviewing and adjusting in time
7 Lack of belief, that is, the "why" of doing this is not clear enough
8 Lack of delayed gratification
9 Lack of deadline
10 Overestimation of one's abilities and insufficiently rational goals
Thinking of the flag I set for myself at the beginning of the year, disappointment is inevitable, but you still have to face what you should face.
I hope that what I failed to do, I can see now that you have lived up to yourself this year, done everything you wanted to do, and all your wishes have come true.
But if you are like me and haven’t fully achieved it, I hope you will not be discouraged. If there are some things and places that you are destined to go to, I believe that if you persist in taking every step, you will eventually arrive.
This year has been full of ups and downs. I think the most worthwhile thing is that I have never given up on the matter of "recording". Even though those are trivial matters in life, there are words to help me remember those past days.
The new year is coming. I hope you will realize all the flags you have set for yourself in the new year. May you be safe and healthy. Stay up late less often and pay more attention to rest.
I hope you can go to your favorite place in the new year and learn to love yourself. come on.
Good night.
