Someone said that the speed of replying to messages represents your weight in the hearts of others. Although this statement is not completely accurate, it is also a true portrayal of 99% of people.
We always hang up those harassing calls and text messages in one second.
Because it is irrelevant, you can express your disgust as you wish.
The message sent by the boss and the teacher will definitely reply within a few minutes.
is crucial, so you need to please your superiors with your diligence.
and there are some messages, it's in between.
may be a boring science sent by family members.
may also be a love message and greeting from a lover.
When facing these messages, different people will have completely different attitudes.
Some people responded happily and had a lot of fun chatting.
Some people continue to be busy with the things at hand and will respond politely in their spare time.
Most people are not that busy.
also chose to delay reply after seeing it, because it felt that it would not matter if the sender waited for a while.
This is both a natural negligence and a means of persuading others to withdraw.
People who are slightly more mature will feel a sense of decent.
After adulthood, few people will send messages to disturb others regardless of time.
Therefore, just say that you are busy and the sender will disappear temporarily.
But some recipients would rather remain silent than find an excuse.
The hints from others are actually very obvious, so you have to retreat at this time.
What kind of personality do you mean? You don’t like to reply, or you’re busy forgetting.
These excuses are all for you to continue to show your kind words to others.
If you continue to rush to annoy others, it will be no different from licking dogs.
The probability that a dog can impress others is basically zero.
Even if it is occasionally sympathy, it is mostly because of sympathy.
After all, dog lickers are stupid and easy to cheat. Multiple people are circling around themselves, and there is no loss.
If there is a better choice, the licking dog will be eliminated immediately.
Therefore, even if you don’t get the peace of mind from others, you will never rush to lick it.
Otherwise, in the end, I will be insulted by nothing.
any relationship requires responses to last for a long time.
This is true for love, and so is family affection.
Even if it is connected by blood, we need to understand each other.
Love that does not seek reward only exists in the novel.
Imagine that a parent is selling his own children and kneeling down and begging others.
But their children are extremely rebellious and squeeze their parents like vampires.
also punched and kicked his parents, whispering harsh words.
not only does not have any gratitude, but also dislikes his parents for being incompetent. How can parents continue to love children like
?
Parents can give more, but their children must always remember their goodness.
Otherwise, even the biological parents would be completely heartbroken.
The same goes for friendship.
Two people can become friends because of their common likes and dislikes.
But if it is just one of the people who keep giving, the other party only knows how to ask for it.
Only one person takes it out, and the other person only knows to put it in.
So long, the friendship between the two will inevitably come to an end.
The relationship between neighbors and neighbors requires mutual benefit and mutual assistance to establish.
Even if you go out to buy things, you need to rely on money to obtain goods and services.
No matter the depth of the relationship, it needs to be maintained through interaction for a long time.
Imagine that if you have never had any intersection with you, you will be stingy in your circle of friends to like it.
Will you actively help when he comes to ask you for something?
A person and you haven’t passed the news for three to five years, and then you will be attending the wedding. Do you really want to continue with a relationship like
?
and those who ignore you and think you can't survive without them.
When they turn back to find you, do you still have the heart to reunite with them?
I think most people have answers in their hearts.There is no need to try to maintain the relationship that does not respond to
.
Wait until the connection decreases, the relationship will gradually fade.
to the end, it can be dispensable and worry-free.
What you really need to maintain are those who care about you.
The world is crowded with people, and it is already a blessing to have a few people to keep warm.
