swallow this glass of bitter wine in life,
and then rush forward without stopping.
Author: Insight Leylah
Liang Yusheng said: "Middle-aged life is as strong as wine."
people reach middle age, life is half a slope.
has a white-haired hall on it and a child under it; in front there are the smoke and dust of time, and in the back there are the pursuits of life.
I am left in the middle, it is difficult to walk and the road is difficult.
Every middle-aged person who is struggling in the misery of life needs to find an outlet for his soul.
If you feel you are about to get over it, go for a walk in these places.
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- Go to the streets at four o'clock in the morning and feel the busyness of the world.
Some people say: Walking around the streets before four o'clock in the morning, I don't know the sufferings of all living beings in the world.
If the neon lights in the bustling business district are the appearance of a city, then the various things in the world coming from the streets in the early morning are her soul.
Blogger @Li Dowa once recorded city images at 4 a.m.
The sky is still dark, but the air is filled with the cold air of dawn.
Sanitation workers wear gloves, endure the pungent smell, and transport the garbage to the truck one by one.
A chef who delivered vegetables was riding a shabby electric car and transported the full amount of vegetables to the vegetable market.
is a grandmother over 60 years old.
She hunched over and took the vegetables from the master's hand bit by bit, and then carefully sorted the vegetables onto the stall. The breakfast shop opposite
, a family of five started working early.
Some people are working hard to dough, some are rolling the dough, and some are making seasonings...
They look at the roadside, greeting the first batch of customers with anticipation.
walks forward and runs a snack stall that has been running overnight. At this moment, it is about to close the stall and go home.
They rode tricycles, walked in the wind and frost, and walked in the mist.
At four o'clock in the morning, look at the figures running around before dawn, and stare at the faces that remained smiling even though they were tired.
After comparison, will you be moved by their love and dedication for life?
You are troubled by trivial matters and are depressed all day long. Some people have to do their best to survive.
You feel that work is heavy and there is no hope in life. Some people hold the money they have saved up one by one, and are grateful that God has given them a way out.
Life is really hard, but there are always people who use their meager bodies to declare war on the world, making their lives live a lively and firm.
Thinking of them, no matter how much pretentious they are, they will throw them on the ground.
The morning light is dim and the cool breeze blows.
Stroll alone in the quiet streets, watching people come and go, and watching the vicissitudes of the world.
All moods can be calmed down peacefully, and all anxiety will be dissolved one by one.
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- 3dl4Go to the hospital where people come and go and experience the impermanence of the world.
Writer Zhang Xiaofeng wrote in " This cup of coffee is just right ":
If I allow me to announce a public holiday for more than one day, I must stipulate this:
This day cannot be used for entertainment or travel, but people are forced to go to the hospital to visit the birth, old age, sickness and death of human beings.
Hospital is a microcosm of the sufferings of all beings and a gathering place for joys and sorrows.
In the emergency room late at night, someone was seriously ill and was racing against death on the operating table.
In the ward of the hospital, someone was seriously ill, but no one was waiting around him.
In the simple corridor, someone was in unbearable pain and moaned and sighed with a hunched over.
Hospital is like the most realistic mirror, reflecting the fragility and strength of life, and also teaching people to cherish and let go.
Blogger @Yang Mingyuan talked about his own experience.
A few years ago, his industry declined and the company adjusted its personnel structure. He was one of the targets of being laid off.
encountered difficulties in work and was even more confused in love.
My girlfriend, who has been with her for many years, broke up at this time and moved out of their rental house with her luggage.
The double blow of unemployment and love-breaking made him suffer and sink several times.
Until one night, when he went to the bathroom, he suddenly had acute gastroenteritis and curled up on the ground.
Fortunately, I found it in time and sent it to the hospital for rescue, so my life was not hindered.
During the days he was hospitalized, he saw someone around him recovering happily, while others were awake.
After walking through the impermanence of life and death, he gradually understood a truth: life is nothing but life and death.
Nothing is more important than living, and nothing is more precious than life.
Song Dandan said:
Most people have never had major surgery. In fact, if you really have surgery, you will understand that being able to see the sunshine of the next day is happiness.
So, next time I encounter something unhappy, I will go to the hospital for a walk.
You will find that the pain of life is just like dust in the face of life and death, and is too small to mention.
As long as you are healthy, there are no difficulties that you can't overcome.
As long as you live well, everything will have a new turning point.
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- Go to different nursing homes to find the original intention of life.
There was a widely circulated article on the Internet called "I'm going to a nursing home tomorrow." The author of the
article is a 78-year-old retired writer in Hubei Province.
The day before she went to the nursing home, she once expressed such helpless feelings:
"I have a husband and a daughter. I never thought that my last stop would be a nursing home.
But now my wife is gone, and my daughter is married far away, and my physical ability to take care of myself is getting worse and worse.
I don't want to cause trouble for her. Even if I don't want to go to a nursing home, it is now my best place to go."
If you feel that work is too tiring and life is too hard, you can go to a nursing home with different facilities to take a look.
There, you can feel a completely different life in your later years.
Some people live in well-equipped nursing homes and enjoy the sun, swimming pools and villas;
while others can only squeeze in a simple room and sleep in a single bed that is not comfortable;
Some people eat fresh and diverse buffets;
and some people eat fresh and diverse buffets;
People can only eat big pot rice that is not delicious;
Some people have various amateur activities and their daily lives are colorful;
And some people can only sit in wheelchairs, and often stay silent all day long...
In the final analysis, the gap between the two is in one word: money.
I heard a heart-wrenching but realistic saying: "When people are old, their quality of life is all made of money."
If you think life is too difficult at the moment, you might as well go to the nursing home.
Look at the smiles and tears of different elderly people and experience different joys and sorrows.
You will find that ideal old age life is really expensive.
So, don’t lie flat when you can still fight, and don’t be pretentious when you can make money.
swallowed the bitter wine of life, and then rushed forward non-stop.
You must believe that all the efforts you have put into life now are the joy and happiness of your old age.
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- Go to my hometown that I haven't returned for a long time to clean my soul, body and mind.
Writer Han Shaogong said: "No matter where people go, they cannot always feel the hot land far behind them.
Because there are his relatives and friends there, at least his past."
Hometown is the direction when they come, and it is also the return of the soul.
An old house, a yard, an ancient tree... there will always be some point that touches us.
When the train drives from a city full of tall buildings into a countryside with mountains and ridges, the noise in his ears will gradually disappear, and the fatigue in his heart will be washed away.
Writer Chen Zhongshi once talked about his own experience in "My Literary Road".
44 years old, he felt a sense of crisis in his heart.
He realized that he had been writing short and medium stories for the first half of his life, and it would be difficult to make a name for himself in the literary world if he continued like this.
He forced himself to create novels in order to seek a bigger breakthrough.
But the more anxious you are, the less clue it is.
I was impatient and I was not satisfied with the article I wrote, and then I was eager to continue writing.
He thinks that this will not work, and there must be some changes.
So, he carried the package away from the city that made people feel restless and quiet, and returned to his peaceful and peaceful hometown.
In my hometown, the fresh air in the pastoral world makes him feel refreshed; the pleasant bird singing in the morning makes him feel happy.
In his spare time, he would walk along the northern slope of the village, watch the willow leaves turn from green to yellow, and watch the moon rise from west to east.
took a break like this for a while, not only did he feel much more energetic, but he also had frequent inspiration when writing.
The famous "White Deer Plain" was created at this time.
Mr. Chen Zhongshi's former residence, two bungalows, some farm tools, and a small farmyard with a few flowers and trees. Located in Xijiang Village, Baling Township, Baqiao District, Xi'an City, Shaanxi Province, it is also the creation location of "White Deer Plain".
Chen Zhongshi said: "The roots of my life experience and artistic experience are in my hometown and rural areas.
As soon as I leave the hustle and bustle of the city and return to the green field of my hometown, my mind will calm down."
Trees have roots, water has its source, and people have their hometown.
The road in my hometown is no matter how muddy it is, it is friendly. It carries our fresh and tender time like grass.
The house in my hometown is no matter how old it is, it is warm. It stores our childhood mood of not knowing sorrow.
When you are tired, tired, and tired, go back to your hometown for a walk.
The mountains and rivers in the countryside will help you remove the fatigue in your heart.
Every grass and tree in the wilderness will ignite your hope for life.
Rest in my hometown for a while, the soul is nourished, and people are filled with the power to set off again.
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I like Ai Qing’s poem: "Time goes downstream, life goes against the current."
When people reach middle age, they will always have unexpected setbacks, and they will always experience the joys, sorrows and joys of life.
But as long as you sort out your mood, every crisis is an opportunity to open up a comedy in life.
Even if you have three thousand worries in life, there are thousands of antidotes.
Middle-aged man who does not shed tears, and let us, a cup to the infinite possible tomorrow, and a cup to the past that will give our all.
cups of wine are gone, and you can go on a free and easy way.
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