Read other people’s stories and understand your own life. Hello everyone, I am redemption!
Many contemporary college students will have the illusion that "my youth has just begun" after entering university, and are even induced by the wrong concept of "youth is not wasted, youth is not decadent, isn't it still called youth?" So they waste their years carelessly, enjoy life drunk and dreaming, but they don't know that outside has been turned upside down, and in the end they can only be pushed blindly by time, wasting their years, leaving only regrets! Miss C's experience in
pattern resonated with me. Miss
C was once a veritable class goddess. Not only is she beautiful, but she has excellent grades, but her family is second to none! It is a life winner who has the halo of the protagonist in the book. Everyone believes that she will have a colorful life.
Once as dazzling as a princess
However, when she met again, she found that she had no longer had the same energy as she had before, but instead was frustrated in love and failed in the workplace.
while drinking and chatting, she said: "When I was dividing the subjects of liberal arts and science in high school, I didn't like science, but my parents thought that science was good, so I chose to go to science. Everyone thought my future was bright, and after a long time, I believed it. When I was in college, I knew that this major made me uninterested, but I didn't have the courage to change majors, so I chose to just live by myself. When I was in the postgraduate entrance examination, I didn't know what I was doing, but I only knew that everyone was taking the exam, so I went to the exam, but my hand of good cards was bad. So many years have been wasted."
also experienced the darkest moment
From these experiences, we can see that she never asked her heart when she made a big choice: Do you really want this? When she had a conflict with her parents, she wanted to argue but found that she no longer had the ability to take the initiative to think, and finally she could only follow the crowd and become a blind follower.
This is because her situation is too small, too small to see only in front of her, too small to never make decisions for herself, and at one point that she mistakenly believes that the life arranged by others is her own life. She tried her best, but she was just like performing a life tragedy .
So in order to avoid the sorrow of small patterns, we must prepare in advance, ask ourselves, be loyal to ourselves, have lofty ambitions, find the goals we are willing to strive for for our whole life, grow and pursue in the passing time, improve ourselves, and never forget our original aspirations, so that we can live up to this life.
Ambitions are high and live up to the youth
This is not an era where one must be happy when one is proud of one’s life. Don’t let the golden cup face the moon empty, but an era where a gentleman hides his weapon and waits for the time to move. Only by opening up the pattern and preparing early can one seize the opportunity and stand out!
