I am Lu Shisi, a post-90s who focuses on female growth and self-improvement. Follow me and let us grow up together and become a better self~
What you lack is not the ability to work hard, but the motivation to work hard.
This sentence is a portrayal of many people and a portrayal of me in the past. The sentence
touched me very much because I have always been unable to work hard, but I know that I lack the motivation to work hard.
In recent years, I have not been an ambitious person. I think I have a house to live in and a car to drive, so I don’t have to worry about food or clothing. I will be satisfied if I have enough money to spend.
After getting married, although no one dared to say anything, sometimes I still have to do things I don’t want to do. Sometimes I want to talk, but I find that no one is willing to listen to my words or do not take them seriously.
encountered similar situations several times, and I immediately swallowed my saliva and swallowed my words and saliva into my stomach. I won’t say it anymore. My influence is too low. Let’s start working hard. It’s time to change myself!
also, therefore, I have a motivation to work hard.
thought carefully and found that I could still make some breakthroughs in my main business.
For this I made some changes.
1. Organize all the information since the work, sort out and review it.
2. Correct the problems sorted out bit by bit.
3. Behave well at work and pay attention to using emotional quotient when communicating.
4. After working, make records and summarize.
In addition, I have also begun to develop skills.
Through analysis, I think that two major skills in today's era are very important, one is cognition and the other is writing.
Cognition determines how a person views people and things, and makes judgments and choices based on this. Cognition determines choice, and choice determines destiny. So, I decided to develop cognitive skills.
Another skill worth developing is writing.
In the Internet era, people are more likely to communicate and communicate through text. Writing can cultivate the ability to express words, and the ability to express words determines a person's communication ability.
In addition, writing can force yourself to improve your ability to read, think, and perceive details. At the same time, writing can amplify your learning effects, and your knowledge can also be passed on through writing.
It can be said that writing is a low-cost and high-yield skill. So, the second skill I decided to develop was writing.
After the motivation to work hard, hard work has infinite possibilities.
I have lost my mood and I don’t care about many things at all. I rarely watch TV series and I don’t watch short videos anymore. It’s better to improve my main business if I have time, and it’s interesting to read books and write.
From the second half of last year to the present, my main business has exceeded the sum of the past two years.
Because I want to cultivate skills, I have read 5 books and written more than 150 articles (because I have set many articles to be visible only by myself, so if you enter the homepage, you will not see many articles).
In fact, the total playback volume has reached 300,000+. Maybe it was because of good luck. I released a few hits and made a little pocket money.
I really want to thank some friends and relatives who encouraged me, supported me, and the 860 friends who followed me. Really, without you, I really can't hold on.
When I work hard to get better now, my life has also become better.
If you have all kinds of worries or emotions like me, you might as well turn worries and emotions into motivation and try every means to make yourself better.
After all, you will not lose money when you are well. Due to worries and emotions, you are the only one who feels uncomfortable.
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Author introduction:
I am a post-90s generation, a person who is studying, practicing, trying to become what I want, and living the life I want.
