1. You must first look for the reasons for everything, and don’t always ask others for help. The shoes are dirty because the road you are walking is not clean.
2. The road of life needs to be planned step by step. If not, do the current things one by one. If done well, the next step will naturally emerge. There is no road in the world. If you walk steadily and step on the level, you will have a road.
3. Beggars who beg for food in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are not dignified than beggars in third-tier cities; flies on the crown are not more valuable than flies in the toilet. The environment cannot change a person's attributes. As the saying goes, gold can shine even if it is thrown into the desert, and stones can be dim and dull when it is placed in a museum.
4. Remember: all kinds of miracles and thousands of truths can never be matched in the end: suitable for yourself.
5. The reason why people’s hearts are uneasy is to place themselves on unstable and unreal things. You build your house on quicksand, but you long for a nest of eternal stability.
6. In this life, how can one have eternal satisfaction? Don’t deny your ability because of temporary setbacks; don’t close your happiness just because of a failure in a relationship; don’t give up your efforts just because you don’t get the desired result in one effort.
7. Take all the good and bad things as you want. Don’t tell others everything. There is really no empathy in this world, you can only know the warmth and coldness.
8. In life, everyone has their own difficulties, but some people are not easily discovered. Handling relationships with people well mainly depends on whether you can: look at people's strengths, help people's difficulties, and remember people's benefits.
9. Whose life is not a thorn, when you fall, when you are upset, when you are upset, when you taste tears, please don’t give up easily, because there is never a kind of persistence that will be let down. Please believe that your persistence will eventually be beautiful.
10. Perhaps the most easiest mistake a person makes in his life is to be too harsh to those close to him and too humble to those who are irrelevant.
11. It is better to refuse seriously than to agree casually. With limited commitment and energy tight, you can learn two other skills: refuse to hate ghosts casually and agree to your sweetheart seriously. —— Zhang Jiajia
12. People’s biggest opponent is often not others, but their own laziness. Don’t expect to be lucky. Luck cannot always be with you. You must make a living by your ability at any time. You have to do your best to be qualified to say that you are not lucky.
13. Don’t miss the scenery you missed, and don’t bother the passers-by who leave. Only by bravely saying goodbye to the wrong ones can you meet the right ones as soon as possible.
14. When you are worried, it means you need to go out to see the world. Look at different scenery and come into contact with different people and things, and you will know that your troubles are that you think too much.
15. No one cares how you cry, no one cares how many autumns you have to endure, and no one cares whether you are happy or not. Outsiders only look at the results and hold on to the process themselves. Once we all understand this truth, we will no longer be pretentious in front of others and will talk around to seek relief.
16. When you are in a low period, think about it carefully. Even if you can’t save money now, you can save some knowledge, friendship, experience, and learn some lessons at the least.
17. You are still very young. In the future, you will meet many people, experience many things, gain a lot, and lose a lot, but no matter what, there are two things that you must not discard. One is called conscience and the other is called ideal.
18. If you don’t know what you want to do, do the things around you first; if you don’t know who you will meet, learn to be kind to the people around you first; if you don’t know if what you are doing now is meaningful, at least make sure that you don’t do anything. In the fog, you may only see the five meters in front of you, but when you walk step by step, the fog will slowly dissipate.
19. I don’t expect life to be smooth, but I hope that when I encounter difficulties in life, I can be its opponent.
20. Without what you call "the years are quiet and good", life has never been easy. When you think it is easy, someone must be responsible for your part.
21. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will be kept in memory. The reason why we suffer is that we pursue too much; the reason why we are unhappy is that we expect too much, let it go, and relax our minds will be much easier. After walking a long way, you can always understand and experience some things to see some people clearly.
