For example, if you want to take a comfortable bath in the bathtub.
You take a scoop of water and add water to the bathtub diligently.
But there is a hole at the bottom of the bathtub that keeps leaking out. Your diligence will give you a big discount.
When you add water at a speed higher than the leaking speed, you can realize your dream of taking a bath earlier,
, but you can't soak for long, you have to get up and add water again.
What does this mean?
is life. You cannot just work hard on the dimension of diligence, and you cannot put all the dimensions of thinking on the hard work.
still needs to study that hole.
Because, your goal is to take a bath, you have to find a way to plug that loophole, or make that loophole smaller, or change a bathtub.
But, has anyone mentioned this hole from the perspective, in the education of parents and school education?
does not. So, this is that many people have been hardworking all their lives, but have remained poor.
is missing a dimension and just wants to get more water. For example, salary increases by 5% every year, but
never thought that asset purchasing power will shrink by 10% every year. Not only does the water in the bathtub not only does not increase, but also becomes less.
You can't take a bath in your life.
and even worse, not only is there a hole in the bottom of your bathtub, but others also take an pump to pump some water from your bathtub.
Diligence is the lowest level of engineering education, and that hole is the threshold for financial education .
is that diligence useless? it works. Relying on diligence and hard work, we will complete the first step of accumulation.
then deepen your understanding of that hole.
But is true diligence the same diligence as the diligence you understand? Probably not.
For example, there are many sales around my friends. They eat with customers, help customers drive, and pick up and drop off children every day.
is considered to be extra hard work in addition to work?
counts. But is such diligence necessarily valuable? uncertain.
must first admit that you can do this step, which is already better than ordinary sales.
has gone further to the customers, but this still cannot obtain greater value.
, because, the greater value is, after being so close, are there any deeper links between you?
For example, I once asked a female salesperson, why did you pick up and drop off customers, but also pick up and drop off his children?
female salesman said, I want to see if I have the chance to be the mother of that child. Picking up and dropping off is not the purpose, but have deeper pursuits.
Are you stunned when you hear this?
Other people’s pick-up is pick-up, and her understanding of the pick-up can be further deepened. Is this value correct?
I am not a saint and cannot comment, but at least this girl did not position herself as a coolie of repeated labor.
wants to cause qualitative change through quantitative change.
simple quantitative change is simply hard work and can’t make much money. The qualitative change she wants to complete is to invest in in , an excellent family asset package.
Did this girl do it?
did it. I asked, are there any psychological burden?
female salesman asked, I pursue my own good life, and the other party’s relationship has also broken down. What burden do I have?
I asked, what do you think of that child?
female salesman said that since his parents are destined to separate, I am destined to have a stepmother.
, why not treat me well in the early stage?
is also very open-minded. I asked, did you design this path since you entered the industry, or did you find a shortcut as you walked?
female salesman said that at the beginning, she wanted to develop from the career path and found that she was not suitable for her.
immediately turned around and wanted to go to the marriage path.
Everyone, deep down, has an idol, who envys someone's specific life and wants to live like him.
I spent money to ask for advice. The advice given to me was to be a ruthless person.
ruthless people have three characteristics:
1. Dare to act . A beautiful girl is not a relationship with whom she falls in love, and she may be disliked in the end. So if you desire love deep down, she will talk with love; if you desire wealth, she will talk with wealth.
is not shameful to reconcile with one's own desires. Values must be kept stable. After thinking through it, you dare to act and iterate continuously in action.
2. Use quantity to hit the quality .
What you saw I married this customer, but I have released my kindness to many people, have you seen it?
How many customers have I picked up and dropped off? Have you seen it? How many people reject me and don’t give me a chance, no one can see outsiders.
. Every more than one month or one year, the probability of this plan being implemented is constantly decreasing, and the hopes of
are becoming increasingly slim.
If you can marry someone who doesn’t take care of your children, who is willing to marry someone who takes care of your children?
But if you say this, you will be scolded.
For example, the Mano who "would rather cry in BMW than laugh behind the bicycle" back then.
3. Firmly want results and echo .
is like playing football. Others watch whether you play well or not, whether you are beautiful or not.
, but the results of the game and the winning or losing only depend on how many goals you scored.
doesn't look at your fake moves, don't look at your fancy excellence, and people can judge merits and demerits, I just want the result. If
is not suitable, please withdraw immediately, and it will definitely be hindered.
people cannot use tactical diligence to cover up strategic laziness . What is strategy?
is the result you want.
