Author: Mo Xiaobei
01: Introduction
Almost everyone in the world wants to have a smooth life, have a peaceful life, and live a prosperous life.
It is undeniable that this expectation is good, but not everyone is so lucky.
Some people have a very smooth life, as if God particularly prefers them; some people's lives are not like this, and they will always encounter such or such troubles.
So, many people will say that life is too hard, and your life is not destined to be lucky.
In fact, what life looks like is all about yourself. What choices you have can often determine what kind of life you will have in the future.
is like the following three blessings in life. Although not everyone has it, as long as you work hard enough, you can achieve one of them.
People live, the most important thing is to live for themselves, not for others to see. As long as they are happy, everything is not important.
There is a saying on the Internet that I want to share with you:
"Life is like a story, it does not depend on how long it is, but on how good it is."
In other words, we don't need to be too anxious. Just live a good life in our limited lives, and it's not in vain for us to come to this life.
02: Life will be smooth if you have money in the card
Although money is not omnipotent, it is absolutely impossible to have no money in life. because. In life, we have to spend money on food, drink, defecation and urination. If we don’t have money, we will be panicked and our lives will naturally be "scattered".
When a person has money, he will not be so anxious and will live his life with all his heart.
I have a buddy who was not at all good to the child in the past few years and occasionally beat the child, but now he is not like this. My friend’s changes surprised me, so I asked the reason.
When I talked to my friend about this topic, my friend asked me: "Have you ever been anxious about money over the years?"
I nodded.
friend continued: "Before, my wife and I didn't have a fixed job, and my wife couldn't make money. The whole family relied on myself. If my son didn't study well, I would feel very uncomfortable. I always felt that all this was not worth it, and my attitude was naturally bad."
friend's meaning is very simple. In the past, I was anxious about money, because I couldn't make money, my children would be more annoyed if they were disobedient. If I made money, of course it was not like this.
We all say that every child has his own flowering period, and we must wait for the flowers to bloom. I personally think that rich people have this time, but people without money have this time.
Make money, you can’t take care of your children, and take care of your children can’t make money. We always hope that your children will be conscious, but they are just children. The problem is not that they lie in us. Because we don’t have money, we will panic and life will be chaotic.
British writer Maugham once wrote this sentence in "The Shackles of Human Nature":
"Of course people pursue not wealth, but they must have a life that can maintain dignity so that they can work without being disturbed, and be generous and independent."
The principle is very simple. People who have no money live a different life from rich people. People who have no money will have a difficult life and it will be even more difficult to embrace happiness.
03: There is someone by the pillow, which is a rare lucky
In our lives, we may live a very lonely life. I hope there is someone by my side who will accompany me. When we encounter troubles, we can have a good chat with each other.
The other party may not provide you with substantial help, but it is enough to comfort your heart and make you feel the existence of happiness.
people find it difficult to feel the importance of the person next to them without encountering trouble, and even ignore the other person's existence.
But once you get sick or encounter some trouble, you will naturally feel the importance of the person next to you.
Because only the person next to you will take care of you and will take care of you with your heart. To TA, you are the most important person in the world.
Our lives are extremely short, and we will even grow old in a blink of an eye. Parents will leave us, and children will have their own lives. Only those who can be by our side are the people by our side.
When you are old, it is really a lucky thing to have someone beside you. You must cherish this time and treat the person around you well. Only in this way can your life be happier.
There are many storms in the world. When two people can face the storms together, why worry about not living the way they want?
04: Have no worries at night, you will be happy in your life
people will really be tortured to death by anxiety, and even have nightmares every night. As long as you open your eyes, what is pressing on your body loans, car loans, and children's education.
If you don’t have a mortgage or a car loan, your child is very obedient and his studies are very good, then will you still worry? The answer is naturally no.
In other words, if you don’t have to worry about your livelihood, your children are also excellent, I’m afraid you will wake up from a smile in your dreams. How can such a life be unhappy?
people live in this life with a mentality.
If you want to be happy, you will naturally be happy. If you want to be sad, you will be sad. You should never expect others to understand you, because he is not you, and you will naturally not be able to empathize with your affairs.
Cai Lan once said this and I especially liked it:
"In this life, except for physical pain, other so-called pains are just what you imagine."
In fact, this is true. If you are always in such pain, then no one can help you. Only by being worried can you better meet happiness.
05: In the last
people have more than 30,000 days in their lives. This number seems to be a lot, but in fact, not many can be used effectively.
So, live a good life while you still have the ability and time. Strive to let yourself live the above three blessings.
As I said at the beginning, what kind of life you want to live depends entirely on your own efforts.
While life is still there, don’t think too much, manage your own life well and live your life as you want. What a wonderful thing it should be.
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