On the road of life, look at people, don’t just look at the surface!
When you are tired, many people will tell you, don’t do it if you are tired, but are there people who give you money to spend?
When you are sick, many people will tell you, take some medicine and drink more water, but are there people who really buy medicine for you and pour water?
When your phone is not good, there will be many people who say no to you and change it. It is not expensive. But are there people who can really buy your phone for you?
When you have difficulties, many people will say "it's okay", but how many people will be asked if you really need help?
Don’t just hear and hear how to do it. There is never a shortage of people in this world who watch the fun. Looking at people, you just look at the surface, and you may not be able to see the sincerity. Some people, they are sweet and enthusiastic on the surface, but they may not be sincere; some people, they are silent and cold on the surface, but they are willing to help you.
Just know some things, don’t say much, and you can’t even do friends if you explain them thoroughly; some people just know each other, don’t have to make friends with each other, it’s just passers-by, there’s no need to be a passerby, it’s not necessary to be heart-to-heart. It’s good to know who is good and who is bad, just know in your heart, three points of intelligence, three points of silence, and four points of silence for yourself.
There is love but no love. Just treat it calmly. If you are good and bad, just understand it in your heart.
Don’t overestimate the relationship, don’t test people’s hearts, it will disappoint you.
People's hearts are complicated, cannot withstand temptation, and cannot tolerate overestimation.
Higashino Keigo said: "There are two things in this world that cannot be directly looked at, one is the sun and the other is the heart of the people.
In this society, don't test the heart of the people. If you test it, you will know what coldness is. So, don't test the heart of the people, it will disappoint you; don't see the heart of the people clearly, it will make you heartache.
Life, sometimes, the more you care about, the more you feel tired, and you are worried, After thinking about it, there are constant worries, and many tacit things. When you are silent, everything is fine. Once you say it out, the relationship is likely to break down.
Some things are good if you know them, there is no need to say more. There will be mistakes if you say too much; some people are good if you know them, there is no need to have deep friendships, and there will be hurt if you have deep friendships.
Shut up is a kind of practice, silence, and a kind of experience.
There are many things that you know them, there is no need to expose them; many people , just recognize it yourself, there is no need to say it out loud, understand it in your heart, and you won’t hurt yourself and be disturbed step by step in life. Sometimes, you need to live a muddle through life, there is no need to be too serious.
People can’t see many things in their lives. Only when they are drunk can they know who will help you; when they encounter problems, they will know who will be willing to help you; when they are in trouble, they can see who treats you sincerely.
When you are down, you deliberately avoid a friend of wine and meat, and dare to talk to you God is an ordinary friend. Those who help you without hesitation are the ones who treat you sincerely.
You can’t be too serious about life, half drunk and half awake, see through but not say it out loud, and you don’t regret life.
Just understand it in your heart. Don’t take some people and things to your heart, and don’t write your emotions on your face.
The ancients said: “Those who have thunder in their chest and faces like flat lakes can be called a general. "This shows that a powerful person is that even if the emotions in his heart are like thunder, the surface is like a calm lake. He will not write his mood on his face, so he can make a difference.
On the road of life, some things do not need to be demanding, they will come when they come; some feelings do not need to be too concerned, they will pass after they pass. When you should understand, you should be sober when you should pretend to be stupid, you should be confused when you do not know how to hide your emotions, and write your mood on your face. You are an immature person. Such behavior will offend people.
After some things happen, others have forgotten them, but you still remember them so deeply. For what purpose, you may not be able to explain them clearly, but instead suffer from them. In fact, when facing life, as long as you understand it in your heart, you don’t have to write your emotions on your face, nor do you have to talk about dissatisfaction with others, and don’t be serious like a stubborn child, turn a blind eye and go through it.
Most things are not that you only think it doesn’t matter after you understand, but that you suddenly understand it after you don’t care.
When someone praises you, just have a secret fun, don't take it completely seriously, because most of the ten things are to make you happy; if others criticize you, just have a little bit of emotions, because most of the ten things are real.
The relationship between people and other people’s behavior is not that important. What matters is how you view it yourself. Don’t take what others say and do to what you do, as it will not affect your life. If you take it lightly, you will be less hurt and you will be in a better mood.
I am not stupid, whoever is good or bad, I understand in my heart.
I am very simple, and I can see through false thoughts at a glance; I am very kind, and I choose not to expose hypocrisy because I am not stupid, whether it is cold or hot, whether it is true or false, I can see that whoever is good or bad, I understand in my heart.
Sometimes you choose not to fight, not because you are cowardly, but because you care about this relationship; sometimes you choose to pretend to be stupid, not because you are timid, but because you don’t want to spend your time on your concerns; sometimes you choose to forgive, not because you owe, but because you don’t want to force others; sometimes you choose to let go, not because you are wrong, but because you don’t want to live in entanglement all the time.
In this world, there are no stupid people, and they know very well in their hearts, but they just feel that there is no need to care too much about some things, and there is no need to care too much about some people; if you are used to being silent, you are too lazy to say more, and if you are used to being pure and dull, you don’t want to care.
just want to be yourself simply, live quietly, don’t want to intrigue, don’t want to calculate, I know in my heart who treats me badly, and don’t want to say more.
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