In today's world, people have changed their way of living, and mobile phones have become our best company. Some people can have no friends, no lovers, or even no family. Having a mobile phone is enough.
A few years ago, there were several friends who loved to post on WeChat Moments. They no longer "persist" these years. They may have begun to hate their former selves. It turns out that not many people in this world care about you.
Over the years, we are getting busier and busier, and I don’t know what the meaning is when I get busy. Some people say, what the meaning is, it’s good to be able to live.
Every year, I meet many people, and become "friends" in just a few words. Everyone has a few people who like to post on their Moments every day. You don't know how many people like them, but you will only see them "leave messages" to themselves.
people, they are actually very boring.
Some people don’t like to post on Moments, and you can’t even see them send any messages.
A friend once said that I only post one Moments a year just to prove that I am still alive.
Is it meaningful to prove that you are still alive? Perhaps, in the hearts of some people, they have long been "layed" and are alive, without proof that they are still alive.
Some people like to post on Moments. They think that people who don’t post on Moments are pitiful. They have no money, they have no life, they don’t have the beauty like me...
There is a saying that goes, don’t measure the world according to your narrow values. This approach is tantamount to looking at the sky.
Some people are always used to comparing with others. If they are better than others, they will be happy, and if they are worse than others, they will be angry.
Live is actually for yourself.
Some people are always used to treating themselves as the center of the world, thinking that everyone around them is paying attention to them, but in fact everyone is very busy.
Some people don’t like to post on Moments, which doesn’t mean they are poor. Maybe it’s because they don’t want to lose their true life...
01 like to be alone
When I was young, I felt that people who like to be alone were a little out of the way. After entering society, I realized how many people are forcing their faces to smile every day.
Many successful people say that you only see my bright and beautiful side, but you don’t see how tired I live.
Adult social interaction is almost all for the sake of interests. Ask your heart, most people yearn for peace and well.
People who like to be alone are not ordinary people!
In society, how many people work hard to societe and rush to show their best side, not just to make life better.
Some people choose to enjoy loneliness, go to work alone, get off work alone, work hard alone, carry all the pain alone, and carry a small home alone.
Has reached a certain age and after experiencing some things, people naturally become open-minded about many things, take it lightly, and see through them.
There is a middle-aged uncle in the unit. He is always used to being alone. Others "roll together" every day, but he never gets involved.
Some people laughed at this uncle, look how pitiful he lives!
Uncle disagreed and immersed in his own spiritual world.
seeds are not fish, how can you know the joy of fish! The most pitiful person in this world is the one who defines the living according to his own way of living.
Some people don’t like to post on Moments, it has nothing to do with being in line with the group or not, and there is no talk of whether they live well or not. They just don’t like to post on Moments, they don’t like to disturb others, nor do they like to be disturbed. They think it’s good to live their own life quietly.
02 Live a fulfilling life
I remember that at the beginning of college, my life was casual and I mistakenly thought that the future was still far away. Therefore, I did not cherish time, and lived a life like " street slim ".
At that time, I always liked to post on WeChat Moments, "showing" when eating, "showing" when traveling, and "showing" when dating, and "showing" whenever something new is happening.
is like drinking. One bottle on the first day, drunk, two bottles on the second day, drunk, and ten bottles on the first hundred days, drunk, and only one day, I don’t drink alcohol. I feel that I can’t live. As a result, I get drunk, become obsessed, my whole body is trembling, my limbs are numb, and my life is ruined.
After getting married and starting a business, there were a lot of trivial matters at home and outside, which I couldn't accept at first. This was not the life I longed for. I looked down on those who were running around all day, and I yearned for poetry and the distance.
After a long time, I am used to it. When I understand what "responsibility" is, I still have "obligations" to bear.
One day I understand, there is no easy word for adults’ world.
The true bravery is not the person who swears every day, nor is it the person who tries to prove to others every day, but the person who does not cry, laugh, quarrel, or make trouble, and works hard to live silently!
When one day I was busy, my heart was frustrated, my face was wrinkled, my feet were covered with dust, I fell asleep when I got home, and I didn’t want to post any more on Moments...
03 EQ is very high
In recent years, there have always been people who like to talk about emotional intelligence.
Some bosses see that an employee is disobedient, so they tell other employees that their emotional intelligence is too low.
Some people regard "showing off" as high emotional intelligence, and others are silent. They perform like an actor crazy. They laugh at others as high emotional intelligence as they are. Are they not tired when others laugh at them?
In fact, everyone is tired, but we are actually hard...
We all want to live a little easier, but the way we pursue happiness is completely different.
Two days ago, a friend scolded a colleague in his circle of friends. She said, don’t think that others are fools, you are smart people and villains!
The next day, she deleted this passage...
There is a friend who loves to post on Moments. Her soul is very interesting. In her Moments, you can always see many new ways of living.
But recently, she suddenly stopped posting to Moments! One day, when I met her, I talked about this. She said that because of posting on WeChat Moments, her husband actually started arguing with her, saying that she was too "showing".
Her husband said that life is for yourself, not for others to see!
She said that posting to my friends is also a part of my life! Don't exaggerate yourself, okay?
Her husband said, it’s not that I’m exaggerating, I’m afraid that some people won’t stand you posting to your Moments every day!
She was very angry and helpless, but in the end, she actually chose to compromise and no longer post to Moments.
She said, I will no longer post on Moments, not because I am afraid of what others think, but because I am for the stability of my marriage.
Some people do not post on Moments, which means that they have seen through the "Moments".
Some people don’t post to Moments, which means they are really smart.
Some people no longer post on Moments, which means they are mature enough.
Some people no longer post on Moments, which means she is very family-oriented.
Some people do not post on Moments, which means they have real high emotional intelligence.
Friends circle is a place where "frequently mixed things". Everyone has their own ideas. If these ideas are mixed together, it is easy to cause trouble...
Maybe, no one cares what you posted, maybe, there are still people who are silently following.
But compared to posting to Moments, perhaps those who do not post on Moments can truly understand life...
