Li Bing has been to Shenzhen since graduating from college. After seven years of struggle, he is almost thirty years old now, without a house, no car, and no girlfriend. In this bustling city, he feels that he has no presence and lives like a stray dog.
There are many people like Li Bing in Shenzhen. They have lost their dreams and cannot find their direction. In fact, many people are very eager to achieve success and fame, but they have never been able to get the key points.
What they lack is not luck, but some underlying logic.
1·Acknowledge that you are just an ordinary person
There are some people who always feel that they are talented and can succeed without any effort. They say that they are missing only an opportunity. When the noble person appears in life, he will make a counterattack.
Some people may have read too many chicken soup articles and think that they are the protagonist. With their intelligence and talents, they can defeat competitors and stand out and gain the favor of their leaders.
The fact that my education tells me is that smart people will do well. I have believed this sentence for thirty years, but it did not lead to my leader giving me a promotion and salary increase just because others said I was smart. I was still at the bottom of the board. It was not until last year that I read the book "Lifelong Growth" that I realized that I was a waste, because I didn't understand that people who want to achieve success in life by relying on intelligence are stupid.
Reality never gives the weak a chance, you have to admit that you are an ordinary person. You are not talented and not smarter than others. This is something that the poor must realize when they counterattack. Only by realizing your ordinary life can you be willing to calm down and study hard. There are too many things in this world that you don’t know, and you can’t make money beyond your cognition. Admitting oneself is just an ordinary person is a necessary process for a person to awaken.
2. Do the right thing with the right method
The reason why successful people are successful is because they do more of the right things. For example, go to bed early and get up early, read, and run. Eat healthy food and carefully polish your professional skills.
Poor people have been poor all the time because they have done too many things that are not good for their growth. Watching TV, watching videos, playing games, and playing mahjong, these things take up a lot of our time. Many people work very hard on these things, repeating them all day long for ten years, even if their eyes are blurred and their waists are bent, they are willing to do so. My colleague Li Xiaoxia said that if she doesn’t play mahjong for a day, her face will be paralyzed!
success has a time cost. If someone can accomplish something in ten years, it only took you three years. What do you feel? Do you feel very happy? It has a unique sense of accomplishment.
What you need is the right method. I am a person who believes in methodology. Only by using the right method can you succeed quickly, otherwise it may lead to you being late.
3. Don’t give up halfway
Netizen Lu Xiaobo started self-media creation in January last year. He worked for half a year and had almost no profit, so he gave up. Su Ming, who was engaged in self-media at the same time as him, did not give up because of the small amount of views. He insisted on daily updates until July this year. Now he has earned more than 10,000 yuan a month, which is the reward for his persistence.
The biggest misfortune in the world is giving up halfway. I have never heard of any successful person who has smooth sailing and always encounters various problems. People who retreat when encountering problems are not worthy of success.
If you don’t want to live at the bottom of society all the time, first of all, you must admit that you are just an ordinary person, and then do things steadily. This is a necessary process for you to achieve a counterattack in your life. must firmly believe that if you continue to do the right thing in the right way, you will surely succeed , just like you will definitely see the light after the darkness before dawn.
