Preface
"All encounters in the world are like cold meeting warmth, with rain; spring meets winter, with years; heaven meets earth, with eternity; people meet people, with life."
The road ahead is long, and our lives are like a high-speed train that always moves forward. In the middle of the journey, we will pass through various transit stations, and we will also encounter strange and diverse people. Some people pass by you and become passers-by; some people fall in love with you and become friends who share weal and woe; some people come and go are the norm in life. Through constant experience and getting along, you finally understand the complexity and sinisterness of human hearts. You finally understand: in this life, only "three types of people" can be believed in, and no one else can trust.
Parents who raised you
Marx said: "What else is more sacred than the emotions contained in the hearts of parents? The heart of parents is the most kind judge, the most caring friend, and the sun of love. Its light shines and warms the intentions condensed in our hearts!"
In this world, the only person who will treat you well without any conditions without asking for reward is your parents. All love seems very small in front of parents' love. In the modern writer Zhu Ziqing 's " Back View ", the author tells the story of his father who left Nanjing to Peking University himself sending him to the train station and buying oranges for him. Although it is just a very ordinary little thing, the author uses simple words to express his father's love to make people sincerely touched.
From learning to getting married and having children, parents have witnessed every step of your growth. They will always give you the best things in the world, be happy for your birth, run around for your studies, and work hard for your happiness. They will not miss every major exam of ours. They have seen us feel frustrated and sad, and we have also seen us look from nothing. It is reasonable and they hope that you can be safe and happy, that's all.
" Parents love their son, and they have a far-reaching plan for it." Family affection is always the station of our souls and the comfort of life.
The unabandoned lover
Love is the touching and eternity of mutual support, and love is the unabandoned person who has gone through the storms.
"House and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly away when disaster strikes." When you have nothing, will your lover still be by your side unconditionally?
I remember reading a news report some time ago. My wife was hospitalized more than ten years ago because she was sick and coma. Although she saved her life after being rescued by the doctor, she was almost paralyzed and could not take care of herself. She needed someone to accompany her in her daily life. Facing the cruel reality, his husband did not choose to leave his wife, but took care of his wife's daily life for ten years. When working outside, he also brought his wife with him. His best interpretation of love is his long-term interpretation.
What is love? Love is when we were in school. We would rather save money and eat instant noodles than save money to meet him on the train; love is after work, I am willing to go to your city for you; love is when you are sad, he will always be by your side to accompany you to hug you instead of just cold words; love is a station that witnesses thousands of couples parting with tears in their eyes; love is to change their life trajectory for each other... However, even if the highest state of love knows that the future is bumpy, he will never leave you and will walk hand in hand with you.
Friends who are in time for help
We will meet many people in our life and become friends with some people. However, feelings are particularly magical and fragile, and it is very likely that because of a word, a person, a little bit of conflict will go further and further. Time is a good medicine to test friends. Along the way, we lost many friends and made some new friends. When you really encounter difficulties, whether your friends are sincere and whether they are unconditionally good to you will be particularly obvious.
How many icings are on the cake? How many people are there to help? When you encounter a critical moment of danger, you can lend a helping hand in time and be willing to help you unconditionally and help you as much as possible are the friendships that are worthy of your deep friendship and hard work to maintain.They don’t care about your money or your rights, they only care about you as a person.
In life, two or three friends are enough to comfort the world. is willing to make time to care and help you when you need it, and those who accompany you through those difficult days must cherish it.
written at the end
Life is a bridge that is getting narrower and narrower. There are many people who can accompany you for a journey, but few people who accompany you for a lifetime. There are thousands of people in the world, and most people hear about profit coming and profit dispersing. For us, most people are just bystanders in life, and only a small number of people can fully participate in the ups and downs of your life.
The older you grow, the more you will find that the price of growth is gains and losses. As the long journey of life, we don’t have to care about who we are afraid of losing, but we should know how to make choices, actively choose a social circle that suits us, cherish the baptism of time, and still be with everyone around you.
