1. If things go against your wishes, believe that God must have other arrangements, and all the losses will return in another way. Believe that you believe that time will not treat you badly. Good night!
2. When you reach a certain age, you must learn to be taciturn. Every sentence must be useful and have weight. Don’t show your emotions, be calm in big things, and have your own bottom line!
3. "People who look very gentle may not have good tempers, but they are just tolerant." People who look particularly good at comforting others actually endure periods of self-comfort.
4. Do what you like and go to a real and simple life. Right and wrong are always indispensable. Just gossip and keep your heart calm, after all, life is your own.
5. Everyone has mental illness, but some people have frequent attacks, some people have occasional attacks, some people are not good at hiding, and some are buried deep in their hearts.
6. It doesn’t matter if you don’t meet someone who gives you a sense of security. You must learn to give yourself strength. Reading books, listening to music, running, anything you like is fine. Enrich yourself seriously, settle your positive and negative emotions, and follow your circumstances and make peace. It is not that it doesn’t matter, it is to ensure that you can hold on to yourself in any situation you encounter.
7. Try to manage the beauty of your life, and use these beauty to tell yourself not to bow your head, even if life is difficult, things will be impermanent. Good night!
8. You are also an educated person. You can’t piece together all your life. Even if your relationship is not satisfactory, you don’t need to practice yourself. —— Yishu
9. No matter how good you do, there are still people pointing fingers; even if you are in a mess, there are still people singing praises. So you don’t have to fall into the eyes of others. You need to please, just yourself. Good night!
10. You must understand that not everyone will like you, accommodate you, and love you. You should also know that not the whole world hates you, ignores you, and does not cherish you.
11. Try not to use favors if you can solve things that you can spend money on yourself. You should know that favors are much more expensive than money.
12. You are not worried that no one loves you. What you worry about is that no one loves you the way you want. In the end you will find that your worries are right: no one can love you the way you want, except yourself.
13. It doesn’t matter if you are sad and sad, it doesn’t matter if you want to cry, it doesn’t matter if you feel sad and hurt, it doesn’t matter if you are alone, give time and everything will pass.
14. Human nature: If you give him one dollar every day, as long as you don’t give it to him for a day, he will hate you. If he is given a slap every day, he will kneel down and thank him as long as he doesn't hit him for a day.
15. A law: the more enthusiastic you are, the less you are cherished. The more you try your best to please someone, the more likely that person will make you feel heartbroken. Remember one sentence: Don’t love too much, everything will turn back if it is extreme. Good night!
16. Only say three things to everyone, and don’t give up all your heart. The “what happened” in most people is just to satisfy curiosity and does not mean to help you. Good night!
17. Although God is innocent and the heaven is innocent, people always blame God and the heaven for their unfairness when encountering bad or misfortune, but forget their ignorance and inability to work hard. Good night!
18. No matter how you live, don’t look sad. Don’t just tell everyone how pitiful you are. Whether your life is good or not, you always rely on yourself. No one will help you. Others just sympathize, and it’s hard to even empathize. Life is full of difficulties, and learning to be strong is the ability you need to master.
19. The most precious thing is not the material you have, but the people who are by your side. You can’t force others to love yourself, you can only work hard to make yourself a person worthy of love. Good night!
20. Growth is to accept an imperfect self and an undesirable self, and also to accept the imperfect and undesirable world. Good night!
21. Only when you live your own life well enough can you have the leisure and qualification to comment on other people's lives. When you live really well enough, you may not have the leisure to comment because you only love the life you have.Good night!