01 The answer we are striving to know long ago that
The difference between humans and animals is that humans have their own will. Humans can freely control their instinct reactions, while animals can only control themselves through instinct. All their behaviors are instinct. I have a strong resistance to reading, studying and exercising. As I grow older, it becomes more and more difficult to resist external triggers as I go back, and I always feel like I want to accept my fate. But as the burden on you is getting more and more, it feels like free diving without any equipment. From the initial vitality and diving freely, to the gradual lack of oxygen, I wish I could rush to the water immediately. It’s just that we dived too deep and couldn’t see how far we could reach the water. The tormenting mentality of not being able to get up and not giving up is just the last straw.
There was always a question in my heart. It was also the first time I was a human being. Why can some people do everything well? In the same situation where the limbs are healthy and the brain is normal, what is the difference between yourself and them? Have they not done anything bad? I never thought about these issues when I was young, but I just felt that excellent people are born or caused by differences in their background. All the problems you encounter are attributed to external factors, either because you are not lucky enough, or because you don’t have a good background, or you don’t know how to do this. In fact, whether we will do something does not depend on whether it is difficult or not, but on how important it is to us. I didn't understand the profound meaning of this sentence before. After passing through the eighteen bends of the mountain road, I found that I already knew the answer we were pursuing. (It's just that I can't do it)
02 Only by doing things that cannot be seen can you get the visible
Life will not be as good as we imagined, but it will not be as bad as we imagined. People's fragility and strength are beyond our imagination. Sometimes we may cry with a fragile sentence, and sometimes we find ourselves gritting our teeth and walking for a long time. But if we stand to the end and look back, we will find that this journey may be just beginning, but what we lack is the perspective of God. This is also why we feel indignant after we have made considerable efforts but have not received corresponding rewards. Please don’t worry, why we have changed, why we have worked hard and still have no effect. Once you work hard, you will see the results. That is what children do. As an adult, patience is very important. We need to learn what we can learn now and wait for them to interact.
Just like we want autumn harvest, not only after sowing, even if the work is done, but also irrigation and fertilization, and patiently waiting for the growth time required for crops, because it will not grow with our will, nor will it mature on our own. There is not just waiting in the process, but we also need to work hard. We will do a lot of things that are not related to crop growth, but it is something we have to do. And these extra things will definitely be rewarded to us twice as much. Just like crops on the ground, they are created by things under the ground, and what we can see comes from things we cannot see. So what does it mean? That is, if we want to change the fruit, we must first change its roots, and if we want to change what we can see, we must first change what we cannot see. All our efforts at the moment are like building a high-rise building. Only by building a solid foundation can we stand between heaven and earth without falling.
03 Cognition is the biggest barrier between people
Every high-rise building we see is composed of a visible subject and an invisible foundation. We cannot think that the subject is its whole because we do not see the foundation. Instead, I asked why I did exactly the same thing as others, but I couldn't stand firmly between heaven and earth like their building. This is our doubt and our problem. A glimpse of the leopard in the tube shows a brief look.It is a common problem for us. We must acknowledge our own shortcomings and do not take temporary energy as our cognition, as this will only make us even more stupid. I remember that there was a joke in Guo Degang : "He said he discussed with rocket scientists what fuel to use for rockets. He said that it was best to burn coal, and it was best to use refined coal to wash coal." Some people might try their best to prove that this statement was very wrong, and even argued with Guo Degang red and used a lot of scientific theories to correct this wrong idea, but what is the difference between this and playing the piano for a cow? For people with different cognitive levels, the best way is to recognize their words and just stay away silently.
Actually, think about it, what impact does it have on most cognitive debates, who is right and who is wrong to us? What we do is enough to prove our own remarks, why do we need to destroy our own Great Wall because of the moment and one person’s rebuttal? Just judge right and wrong to yourself, and listen to praise and criticism. I know the right or wrong of the matter. I will tell you what others say about you, and I will testify to us as a result. Please don’t be sad about those irrelevant people and comments, because this is growth, and we can just be at peace. When we haven’t found what we want to do, do what we should do. Because no matter how we live, no matter how excellent or perfect we are, there will always be people who like us, and there will always be people who don’t like us. Which one is more important, if others like you or if you like you? Both are very important, and it is more important to like yourself when you cannot have both. Although time was silent, it answered all the questions.
