Today, many people’s idea is to not only make a living in the workplace, but also get a decent job.
These ideas were also used to be, but today there are more.
Today’s people and their predecessors don’t know which one is more realistic. When the overall supply of materials in is relatively short, you can get a little bit. It is all rigid demand. If you have the shame but don’t have to make a living. Of course it is good to be able to sit and eat decently. If you have to eat hard, it is no big deal. Most people can understand what they need, what they lack, and whether they have decent conditions. People who value decency are mostly prepared to be poor. The situation today seems different. You must be decent enough, and you must be relaxed and rich. Face is important, and small money cannot be lost. Perhaps it is because I have read books for a few more years. Of course, first of all, we must be sure that, normally, this is not a delusion. - If you are in a workplace where "the real knowledge of etiquette" is known, if everyone is gentle and humble, if the sun shines every day...
Technology and civilization are indeed developing. But compared to the past, there are still many things that remain unchanged. For example, as before, has almost never existed.
To put it simply and roughly, there are two things that people in the workplace want today: external formal decency and internal psychological decency.
external form, be decent. The working environment given by must be comfortable and clean, with bright windows and clean areas; there must be no sun and rain, and no noise. Of course, the basic facilities of "what should be available" must be equipped in place; the work benefits of "what should be available" must also be indispensable. In this way, I can work decently.
internally, you must also be decent. No matter who you are, no matter who asks for whom; no matter who has the advantage and whoever takes the truth, you have to respect me. And, let me feel this respect. You have to consider my actual situation and my understanding ability, and communicate with me well in a way that I can accept. We have never been angry with anyone before, and we can't bear it. Can't do it? Just fry.
However, we also know that what we want is probably wishful thinking. In many cases, there is no way to get both decent and small money.
We want to get rewards from work. Because has the ability and willingness to work, it seems that it is not difficult to earn that little money and supply your needs. However, having the ability and willingness does not mean that others must accept your ability and willingness. There are also opportunities and channels. We need someone to provide such an opportunity to give your brain or physical strength and get rewards.
And this opportunity and channel come at a price. If we do not bring our own resources when we stand at the starting line of the workplace, we need to pay other things in exchange for opportunities to obtain. What these "others" correspond to is often decent.
In other words, it takes conditions to get both decent and small money. If you have a sufficient foundation and do not need to rely on others to get opportunities, then at least in the eyes of bystanders, you can have both. mustard green look under the tree. In most cases, most people in the workplace do not have such conditions. In this case, if you force yourself to be decent, you will think less about small money; if you want small money, you can only sacrifice your decency.
Whether we can accept it or not, the reality is the same.
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