We often hear this: Sometimes you must have it in your destiny, but don’t force it in your destiny; everything is fate, and there is no way to do anything. Indeed, how a person’s fate, whether he can live a happy life, and what he will live will be affected by many factors.
For example, the influence of our original family, the influence of acquired growth environment, the impact of our life situation, etc. can all change our original life trajectory.
In many cases, we have no choice or change these factors that affect our destiny. Therefore, the statement that fate is destined to a certain extent makes sense.
But even if we cannot choose or change some parts of our destiny, we can control our mentality and practices, have the right choice for our life path, work hard to change what we can change, and strive for what we can strive for, life can definitely be changed slowly, and our destiny will gradually become better.
1. Believe that you can become better and control your own destiny.
The best Feng Shui for a person is to have confidence in himself. If a person lacks confidence, he will play badly even if he gets a good deck of cards. But if you have confidence, you will work hard to create a better life and make yourself better and better.
Therefore, if a person wants to have a better life, he must have confidence in himself and believe that he has the ability to live a better life. Everyone will also experience some hardships and setbacks in their lives. Don’t be too slim and don’t be too persistent. If you try your best, you won’t get what you want. This is normal, because there are heavens outside of heaven and there are people outside of man.
Even if you love someone with your heart and soul and use your life to love someone, it is normal to be disappointed, because people's hearts are separated from their belly, people will change and the moon will be full. Only by letting go of your obsession and starting to pursue a new life will you get out of the predicament.
Therefore, only by making yourself better and better can you have the ability to control your own destiny.
2. Always maintain a love for life and face all kinds of life optimistically.
Only when a person loves life and loves life can he be full of fighting spirit every day and strive for a better life. If a person loses his love for life and loses the ability to pursue happiness, how can he still have the ability to change his destiny?
life can be believed, but you must not recognize it. Even if our innate conditions cannot be changed, through acquired efforts, we can still have a happy life.
However, if we accept our fate and feel that we cannot live a good life no matter what, then your life will really not have the chance to get better, and it is very likely that your life will get worse and worse because of your lack of active efforts.
3. Believe that people’s luck is changing at any time, and their destiny will also change.
Although our original family, talents and qualifications cannot be changed, our luck is changing anytime and anywhere, and our aura is constantly changing. So, if we want our destiny to keep improving, we will first make ourselves better. Only when we become better ourselves will our aura become stronger, and we will attract more good energy forests to us, making us better and better.
If we observe the successful people around us, we will find that some people have always been unsuccessful, but because of a certain opportunity, they will suddenly become smoother and smoother, and may even make a fortune. This is because when a person's aura changes, he will attract more good energy to you, and there will naturally be more opportunities, luck will get better and better, and destiny will change accordingly.
So, if we want to have a better life and a better destiny, we must not accept our fate. We must believe that we have the ability to change our lives and our destiny, so that we will get better and better and better.
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